Let us look at scene - small new understanding of a Y MM, D students and MM Quanqi exchanges, so will say: "Y ah, not depressed, of the need to release more than ah, or will Biechu disease." Then the small C will be unthinkingly refuted: "Do not control me, and I see you in the projection it, it's clear that you find a girlfriend, also deliberately look for things I said," Whether you are the division of Psychology Psychology survivors of non-friends, I believe this article is equally interesting to you. Psytopic members of the K through 13 words rollout of the Psychology Department's four-year university student life, Duba Waner and can not help but resonate. Maybe your mind there are other point of the "psychology student" image, may wish to share with you. - psytopic.com
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When have graduated two months time, I try to write these words, to commemorate the psychology student as a four-year university life.
Limited to my personal perspective, the article recorded the lives of one-sidedness of course, here as Paozhuanyinyu, also asked other people to share your own psychology of the story.
Admission motivation
When we convergence far apart from one side, the other side of少不了asked a question - Why you should be reported psychology »
The first is the swap! Half of the people will answer. You absolutely can not think, psychology as a study section one of the most popular profession, her students have quite a number of people are non-voluntary approach to the. Four years later, when looking for work, you will find that the swap was still a lot of people in regret, of course, but also a considerable portion has been like this on the wrong marriage, "Langjun."
The second reason: because people's psychology is very mysterious, we have to explore it. I still remember that it was originally written by the board of the iceberg in the tabloids - "Compared to explore the vast universe, is more important to explore people's hearts." Compared to the original ideals, and we are now the tone of realism, when people asked what time we can have a mind to explore the results of the time I usually answer in the 22 century rather than the 21st century.
Finally on the grounds that self-help. Although few people take the initiative declared that he is with some kind of psychological barrier, or to mental illness, but there is some degree of psychological problems. The self-help useful? » My answer is optimistic, everyone's mental health is improved. Intentionally or unintentionally, use of psychological knowledge, we obviously can reduce the chance a psychological quagmire.
Self-analysis
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Ancient Greek temples of stone tablet engraved with the following words - your own understanding; psychology originator Fontenay will become their main method of introspection; most known psychologist Freud is advocated Self-analysis. Against the background of all this, let us these 18, 19-year-old children from school soon began his long 40,50, or even longer self-analysis career.
Freshman remember the initial period of time, I often stay after the Mengxing done on a bed with half-understood do not understand the "Dream Analysis" learned to analyze things just dream. I even germination to use a notebook recording the University of the idea four years of dreams. While lying on the night, with the other boys are different, our four boys about football, not talk about politics, only talk about each other, on their own. We have followed their own narrative of early childhood experience, middle and high school experience, to attempt to grow from its own history to discover the factors shaping the character. And the remaining three will be on each other's experience to their analysis, truly interesting.
Self-analysis useful? » It seems that at least in academic self-analysis is subjective, unreliable. Indeed, ironically, on the subjective world of psychology is the most hated subjective analysis. What is more, that the subjective world is nothing but a by-product of physical activity, we decided the activities of our thinking, rather than our thinking in control of our actions.
But not all the prejudice I cherish the memory of that period of Rumi-the first self-analysis. When you surprised to find that they actually have many ideas, desire, is also a very wonderful thing.
Freud
Have to admit that, for Freud, we have very few people can bypass him. Although I now often said that the spirit of the school's disdain.
I clearly remember that the scenario: the first time we get library cards, Lengtoulengnao in the social sciences Stack, Luancuan, aunts and asked what we would like to take on, we said Floyd, even the "psychology" are the words No mention. It seems to us at the time of: = Freud's psychology. Finally, I took to the dilapidated state of a "Dream Analysis," by a small C is a more even break the yellow "Freud and Marx."
The first reading of Freud, he explained that it is we have been very taboo "sex". Even a cucumber with, he can be, is said to symbolize male genitalia cucumber. The more depressing things, the more we are willing to discuss, and then a period of time, cucumber, TV Tower, the library has a big hole before the rockery, have become targets of our discussion.
And then did not use time, I rejected the Freud, the reason is that at the time - Karl Popper's theory can be falsification. Our students also have to: too much value "libido", for various reasons, such as invalid deny him the elderly. As for Jung, Adler's generation, is fresh someone to study.
However, we have Floyd it has another purpose, he estimated that the elderly also dumbfounding. Let us look at scene - small new understanding of a Y MM, D students and MM Quanqi exchanges, so will say: "Y ah, not depressed, of the need to release more than ah, or will Biechu disease." Then the small C will be unthinkingly refuted: "Do not control me, and I see you in the projection it, it's clear that you find a girlfriend, I also find that deliberately!"
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Notes: 1, suppress: Freund's theory of repression bottom of the "I", a kind of ease the anxiety of the way;
2, projection: Freund's one theory, the bottom of the "I" project the idea to other people, on the matter.
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Oh, as you see, Freund's theory is our day-to-day debate on the favorable weapons. In particular its "projection theory," the absolute killer of reach, they say not conducive to any of your speech, you can immediately accused each other of being "projection."
Emotional
Emotional » You also learn the emotional and psychological » Will test anxiety » Depression also » Will be a matter for anxiety »
Yes, sure, certain and certainly, we will also emotional, we are human beings, we also have feelings worries. We did learn some adjustment means, but this does not mean that our heads we can always overcome the negative sentiment.
Test anxiety is the most obvious manifestation. To an examination, many people on the day of tension Xixi, and the study section of the course, is a terrible tension, it is after it.
Another emotion is a concrete manifestation of insomnia. I即是一cases, often can not Anshui, sometimes reluctantly only to open the radio, headphones and then it just came all kinds of "sexual health" programme, somewhat embarrassing. The collective insomnia is a fun, Wu Litou, a house people do not want to sleep. So we began to debate various issues, from the Wonders of the world to the essence of life, of course, finally to be returned to each individual's personal problems.
Once more interesting, we actually collective hysteria - we quarters next door and began Duige eight quarters, eight boys Duige, I sentence you one, has been continued from 12:00 to 3:00 the next day.
In short, emotional moment with our companions, more precisely, and is accompanied by the time this group of young people.
Love
Someone asked » Which most of the people will谈恋爱» Dayue: the Psychology Department. All know what the others think, is not to capture the hearts of others? »
Saying so, can we truly love what about the » Some students will respond better, but some people will be frustrating, said: "Life unsatisfactory, most likely ah!"
Book will tell us how to capture home? » The answer is - yes, pay. The principle of recovery, even I have a set. First of all familiar with each other and to ensure that the best regular meeting (in front of Huang Huang others, or single-Acacia is useless); more praise for others, because people would like first of all on their own people have a favorable impression. These are social psychologists in interpersonal relationships to extract the best option. We may be able to do it » We really will try to use these laws to fall in love in this »
As far as I know, not many people use. Hun Letou people tend to love, "love of the people are patient," and people at this time can only act based on instinct. And to the success of love, I would like to not rely on interpersonal skills, but the two sides of the personal charisma, or God's fate.
Are limited to personal privacy, this inconvenience on the son said, for example. I would like to express nothing more than a yes, we love and love to any young people the same, however. In that beautiful love before, most of us is pure, without the Xinji.
Network
Psychology of the characteristics embodied in the first ID on the network. One is psychen, psyli, psyzhang, Shenpa others do not know they are learning psychology.
And on the Internet, very few for those of us who place. Psychology public forum full of a lot of寻医medical treatment, and professional psychology forum is extremely rare. But in addition to my "information addicts" who, most students do not have the Internet to find the so-called "Psychology of the home" like the place. The students are still talking to chat, blog writing the blog to write a hive.
Jiao Keyuan
Jiao Keyuan, Chinese basic any one of the strangest Normal University College. Originally Normal University education should be the most important thing, but the teachers and students have never Jiaoke Yuan attention, the teacher of funds for scientific research relative to other homes, much less, while the employment rate of students and the basic minimum. Then you may ask, I do Genni Jiang Jiaoke Yuan » As everyone knows, there is a significant fact: in China two-thirds of the Psychology Department at National Taiwan Normal University, and most are in the Psychology Department Jiaoke Yuan.
Psychology Department in Jiaoke Yuan Ping Sha? » This I also do not know that, and determined the fact that our psychology will be a long time the most important educational psychology on the location, therefore, the "psychological education regardless of family," said. But today's psychology students and teachers is to stay Jiaoke Yuan will not be proud of, one of our teachers even said: "When the independence of psychology from Jiaoke Yuan, will lead the Psychology Department." Seems to be that, if not independent of Psychology, this school of psychology on forever Xiantian Ri. You can not say this, no justification, for example, China's Beijing Normal University, Southwest China Normal University (now changed to Southwestern University), Central China Normal University's Psychology Department have been independent from Jiaoke Yuan, the establishment of a fully independent Institute of Psychology, The three schools of psychology development are obvious to all. Even long-term Jiaoke Yuan is the director of the Psychology Department and the Department of Education to for, say, our schools, from the psychology of the moment when the president of the teachers, teachers and students also feel that one faces bright.
Psychology students Jiaoke Yuan slightly offensive Another reason is its strong sense of science. Ah » You are the original rationale Kee! You do not in the colleges of education? » That you do not know, almost all the Chinese University of psychology students, in high school, are learning the science, and "learn a few physics and chemistry, traveled the world are not afraid of the phrase" They are also familiar. And education and some of the day, "Wuwennongmo, Shuazui Pi's" stay together, so that the part of extremist psychology students find it very Meijin. That objective, although not all of the Psychology Department of Psychology students have a firm orientation of natural sciences, but most of the students or the psychology of the "science" to a certain position, even if the experiments do not know, statistics, psychology of most of these science Part of, they will often engage in experiments, statistics, the People's News to measuring the attitude of reverence.
It is precisely because of these, psychology and the humanities are often the very nature incompatible with Jiaoke Yuan. I do not know when this situation will change » What is gratifying is that now Zhejiang University, Zhongshan University, the comprehensive school of psychology is completely independent of the Jiaoke Yuan, for example, Zhejiang University on the psychology of the Science Faculty.
Classes and examinations
Class look like the most important thing we can basically not what I said. Our classroom with other disciplines do not have what is special about the classroom, because teachers did not study psychology, and know how to impart knowledge. I want to say is that class for us, is not so important, and even some very important, particularly when the teacher taught the class when it difficult to control.
In universities, learning the most important thing is in the library, not the classroom. Through the Library, you can learn one other independent professionals, of course, you can also better to study psychology.
The examination is very chicken ribs matter. Even if we never learn classes of students, back in a few days before the examination can also book through. The reason is simple: the psychology of the knowledge structure is not such as physics, chemistry is so particular about layers of logic, math, it's more loose knowledge and understanding of memory stronger role in the interpretation of thinking, at least for the examination on the case and the psychological Learn the language and common sense too, even if you do not quite understand the term, you can generally express to you mean. Therefore, a psychology student, and interest in the inquiry is obviously more important than the examination.
Psychological Counseling
As Bi Bukai Freud, we also Bibu Kai psychological counseling. Even in the layman's view, psychological counseling = psychology. For example, some people will tell me that I should stay in a certain city, opened a psychological clinics, because in this city to seek advice of the substantial number of people, but also the economic benefits would also be my objective.
Here again I have to clarify this concept, psychological counseling is only part of psychology, or even is not necessarily the main part. Psychological Consultation on this course of study in the Chinese University psychology courses, almost accounts for only less than one-fifth of the proportion. In the mainstream of Chinese psychology, psychological counseling does not account for the same principal position. If you spent pouring over the back of China's most authoritative journal of Psychology, "Psychology", you will find that the above data, and are filled with all kinds of terms, which are almost entirely psychological consultation with the industry are not relevant.
Of course, psychological counseling is not to discuss the focus of this paper, I just would like to refer to psychological counseling and the relationship between our students. We will probably two of the main trunk and consult the relevant lesson: "psychological counseling", "Clinical Psychology." And at least one third of the students with psychological counseling strong interest. However, due to lack of practice opportunities, most people tend to stay in the interest of fantasy.
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No formal training advice, consulting each other has become another in our lives fun. If the A-jun Menmenbuyue, B-jun may be Coushang ago: "Buster, how can you, and I help you advice on how« "A-jun therefore may be Yiwuyishi to talk, even more, Shayouqishi And loaded into a depression or obsessive-compulsive disorder patients. In turn, may also said: "it is not, I see your bad mood these days seems to Afghanistan, specifically, I listen!" In fact, we all understand: We do not have a genuine consultation skills and experience of each other also seek advice Le won only one.
But there is one point referred to in the day-to-day interpersonal relationships, many students will intentionally or unintentionally, the use of psychological counselling to learn the lessons of knowledge. For example, if a friend is to have complained, the other party will listen to the Qing Li, reported from time to time to nod and smile, some consultants Huanpo of Paitou. Advisory very stressed because of "unconditional positive attention," said that the face of visitors, should be the first to give them an active interest, followed by the use of psychological techniques to resolve the conflict. And this is sometimes harmful, and some people will always have the habit of Paogenwendi others, such as asking the other party and the early experience of school education. As everyone knows, sometimes a friend just listened to enough, if every time a friend as you will be consulting patients, it should be a problem.
Subjects
In addition to the word engage in life, most people probably will not be too familiar with. Can "test" is the word of our psychology students of high frequency words.
"Today is when you try to be a« "
"Ah, Fansi, that people do not know what engage in a mental rotation task, my mind are faint!"
Each basic psychology students into the school in the near future, will begin his four years and grown up more Test career was a long time. Why is it » First of all you have to understand that mainstream psychology is an experimental science, she and the physical, chemical, to experiment, measuring method as the mainstream research methods. The physics and chemistry is very simple, to find some equipment, the pilot will not be moving targets is always the object, even in biology, has most of his trial will be everywhere Tiaotiao the mouse. And our different psychology, the study is, and psychological experiments, the target can only be measured in people. Can be so many subjects where to find » In foreign countries, researchers may also pay the recruitment of subjects, while in China, most of the test are those of us psychology undergraduates.
If you have not engaged in the auspices of experimental psychology, you may not be aware of the difficulties here. You might say, is not looking for a few people recreating that? » In fact, to do a psychological test is far from being that simple. Because people really too special, they like small rodents, they are living an independent entity, they have their own feelings and experience.
I remember that I do dissertation, was found on the test were very interesting. My task is very simple experiment, is to let some words on a computer show, the trial was immediately wrote to him or her to see the word. As the design of reason, I just want to see some words, some people do not see the words. Some may be just try to look for trouble, always on a girls asked: "Why do other people see, I can not see it» "looking at her tone, as if saying," Why other people can pass the examination, I It can not pass it »" I had to comfort her, we have not tested the ability of this test, you can not see does not reflect your ability, this was simply the individual differences. "What I dumbfounding, such as all the experiments done, the laboratory found on the door which has not been hit by the trial drew a crying face, also wrote to his deeply hurt. Here, People are very wonderful to see the animals, I was just a group of people to aggregate the results, simply do not care who the specific results, and each person it has its own achievements慎之又慎. Yanyin again that the words: "Every Individuals are their own universe. "
Psychology was the test, you should always be properly looked after them, we let them in accordance with your request, must not hurt other people's self-esteem.
If you have a chance, life can be when one must be back to try psychology. Kind of feeling is very strange, this is not the examination, if you do not like college entrance examination preparation efforts, and in fact, you have more to performance than the college entrance examination. The examiners are you simply do not care about you a person's performance, a group of people only care about whether or not in line with the average performance of his or her assumptions. Incidentally here, the current trial was the intention of concealing experiment is routine, you may be told to test the reaction speed, and in fact the examiner is to observe the performance of your memory. And so you find that they had been deceived when, in the laboratory examiners may be Touxiao the iceberg.
Study section
The current psychology study section has become popular in the hot, and I have just experienced a study section, is also here道出some of our experiences to share with you.
You may think that we will first study section of the door is not too tight, the students are admitted to at least have a relaxed attitude. In fact, if not, as most people study section, we also stress, anxiety. Including admitted to Beijing University and Beijing Normal University and Zhejiang University students this school, you will find that they usually have a ridiculous anxiety. For example, take the road to madness singing, or in the corridors of Zixi room shouted out: "I crash!" And then immediately disappear. The insomnia is more routine. What is more, a psychology of the first three have been admitted to a certain school of GG, each under a Zixi will take roadside trash Export. Whenever we go on the road and saw a rubbish bin pathetic, Aiyuan and fell to the street, they know a GG has flash.
We believe that the tensions have been so many are prepared to study section of the Kanguan a lot easier. Next you may ask, because you learn psychology, at least a 10% effective learning methods. My task is to let you more easily. I want to say is that there is indeed a way, but You Daoshi "no-strokes-a measure", there are two ways it seems stupid for all benefit: Chao Shu, endorsement.
Chao Shu » Chao Shu do » Oh, of course, not a mechanical Chaoshu, "Chao Shu" is our generation's notes said. We usually have all kinds of large and small notebook, and Zixi on the stem of the matter is that things on the "copy" to the notebook. Why is that? Copy » Because sometimes we feel that we are doing the work is too dull, not too technical content, the book is sometimes the things intact as to the notebook, sometimes feel that they are doing a stupid得不longer silly thing. Later, I take some notes, I usually say that this is Meisha viewed, are the Chao Shu. Of course, or have to admit that "Chao Shu" there is still a level of sub-and high-level, Chao Shu time will be their memory, structured organizational knowledge, by adding their own thinking, it in fact tips here, most people I do not say. However, no matter how clever, "Chao Shu" is also a significant component of the intact and Chao Shu, or so called "copy" even more psychologically at ease.
In addition to copy, and the remaining is the back. Is said to be more accurate memory notebook knowledge. How is memory » Bai back! And the best way is to read one side back, so you will be surprised to find that study section final period, Zixi room on the corridor a group of people, Yang Wen mouth neither read nor read Marx, but reading what character, personality, intelligence , Reflects the subjective, and so on. Needless to say, this group of idiots that we had. Psychology is based on science research methods, but with the way arts - reading memory, it is the best way to learn it. We admitted to a Beijing University of MM is this deep into Usual.
After reading these, I believe that it is ready to study section of the Kanguan also increase the confidence of some enlightenment to the bar.
Looking for work
Psychology graduates out to do » This is a problem. Perhaps this question better, a graduate of the XX can do »
One of our teachers always told us: to forget they are learning psychology, the only way to better adapt to society. Why is it » Because we lack the professional too technical content, and you tell people you are learning psychology, others will ask: "We class school students do not listen, you can solve it« I do not love the children and people speak, you let him Variable open it «the absence of efforts to the work of my staff, you allow them to?» "If the candidate is, a psychology student will be identified, said:" can, we have some way ", then he or she will begin搬弄books point of knowledge. In fact, our hearts will not say.
Indeed can not, at least for a psychology graduate students just can not. To control people and change people, and always is a difficult task. Dealing with people, experience and wisdom are sometimes important than the psychological theory. So often this happens, you use your experience and wisdom to solve practical problems step by step, but in the appropriate use of the psychology of interpersonal theory, theory of incentives and so on, it can be successful, the effect Yuanshen Yu The drawing board.
This back to the beginning of the topic and decided whether we can find a job, or to find what kind of work, is not whether we are learning psychology, but in our people's self-cultivation and wisdom.
Therefore, our students at graduation, also found some interesting work, such as selling routers, to edit the site, to write page code, the math, there are only prepared to write literary fiction. These people appear to have been out of their professional, but who can say they did not work in the application of psychology in the knowledge it » Of course, apart from study section of people, the overwhelming majority of people still went to school when the psychological counselling teachers. One day, the students watched a signature QQ has changed the "new start military training," I can not help but suspect that this is also the child, another group of children what to do psychological counselling? » He can in the new secondary school environment to be » But in turn it wants to, who is born will be able to do psychological counselling to students? » Ruge in the singing - "the people to learn how to grow their own" I believe that this child will certainly be difficulties and setbacks in the slowly growing.
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试看情景——小Y新认识了一MM,D同学劝其和MM交往,于是会说:“小Y啊,不要在压抑了,力比多需要释放啊,不然会憋出病的“。这时小C则会不假思索的反驳道:”不要管我,我看你是在投射吧,明明是你自己想找女朋友,还故意找我说事!”不论你是心理系的师生还是非心理学的朋友,相信这篇文章对你来说同样有趣。Psytopic的成员K通过13个关键词,铺展了心理系学生的四年大学生活,读罢不禁莞尔和共鸣。也许您的心中还有其他角度的“心理系学生”形象,不妨和大家分享。-psytopic.com
最后的理由是自救。尽管很少人主动宣称,自己是带着某种心理障碍,或者是心理疾病来的,但的确有人存在某种程度上的心理问题。那自救有用吗?我的答案是乐观的,大家的心理健康水平的确提高了。有意无意地运用心理学知识,显然可以减少我们陷入心理泥潭的机会。
古希腊神庙的石碑上镌刻着如下几个字——认识你自己;心理学鼻祖冯特将其最主要的方法成为内省法;最受大众所知的心理学家弗洛伊德更是倡导自我分析。这一切的大背景,让我们这些18、19岁的孩子们,从入学不久就开始了自己长达40、50年,甚至更长时间的自我分析生涯。
记得大一最初的一段日子,我常常在梦醒之后呆做在床上,用半懂不懂的《梦的解析》里学到东西来分析刚刚的梦境。我甚至萌发出用一个笔记本记录大学四年的梦境的想法。而每夜的卧谈里,与其它的男生们不同,我们四个男生不谈足球,不谈政治,只谈对方,谈自己。我们曾依次叙述自己的早期童年经验、初中、高中经历,以力图从自己的成长史中来发掘出塑造当前性格的因素。而剩下的三人也会就对方的经历提交自己的分析报告,着实有趣。
自我分析有用吗?至少在学术界看来自我分析是主观的,不可靠的。的确具有讽刺意味,研究主观世界的心理学却最讨厌主观的分析方法。更有甚者,认为主观世界无非是生理活动的副产品,我们的活动决定着我们的思考,而非我们的思考控制着我们的行动。
不过一切都不妨碍我缅怀最初那段入迷式的自我分析。当你惊奇地发现自己其实拥有无数的想法、欲念时,也是一件很奇妙的事。
初读弗洛伊德,才知道他讲得是我们一直很忌讳的“性”的问题。甚至一根黄瓜都能被他拿来说事,据说黄瓜象征着男性生殖器。越是压抑的东西,我们越是愿意讨论,而当时的一段日子,黄瓜、电视塔、图书馆前有着一个大洞的假山,都成了我们的讨论对象。
然后并没有用多久,我就否定了弗洛伊德,当时的理由是卡尔-波普尔的可证伪理论。而我们的同学们也陆续以:过于看重“力比多”、治疗无效等各种理由否定他老人家。至于荣格、阿德勒之辈,更是鲜有人去研究。
然而,弗洛伊德却对我们有了另外的用途,他老人家知道了估计也哭笑不得。试看情景——小Y新认识了一MM,D同学劝其和MM交往,于是会说:“小Y啊,不要在压抑了,力比多需要释放啊,不然会憋出病的“。这时小C则会不假思索的反驳道:”不要管我,我看你是在投射吧,明明是你自己想找女朋友,还故意找我说事!”
据我了解,用的人并不多。爱情往往让人昏了头,”恋爱的人都是病人“,而人们在此时只能凭本能行事。而促使恋爱成功的,我想也不是靠的人际交往技巧,而是双方的个人魅力,或是上天的缘分。
心理系凭啥在教科院呢?这点我也说不清楚,而确定的事实是,我国的心理学长期以来将教育心理学放在最为重要的位置,于是有了“教育心理不分家”之说。但今天的心理系师生是绝不会以呆在教科院为荣的,我们的一位老师甚至说过:“什么时候心理系从教科院独立了,那么心理系也就出头了“。似乎是说,心理系若是不独立,这个学校的心理学就永难见天日。你不能说这话没有道理,例如我国的北师大、西南师大(现已改为西南大学)、华中师大的心理系均已从教科院中独立,成立了完全独立的心理学院,而这三个学校的心理学发展也是有目共睹。甚至连教科院的院长也是长期由心理系和教育系来争夺,比方说我们学校,暂时由心理系的老师当了院长,师生们也一个个觉得脸上有光。
心理系学生对教科院略有反感的另外一个原因是其浓厚的理科意识。啊?原来你们是理科阿!你们不是在教育学院吗?这您就又不知道了,全中国几乎所有大学的心理系本科生,在高中时都是学的理科,而”学好数理化,走遍天下都不怕“这句话他们也是耳熟能详。而与学教育的一些整天”舞文弄墨、耍嘴皮的人“呆在一起,也让心理系的部分极端学生觉得很没劲。客观的说,虽然不是所有的心理系学生都坚定心理学的自然科学取向,但大部分学生还是对心理学的”理科“地位给予了肯定,即使不懂实验、统计,这些心理学中最理科的部分,他们也往往会对搞实验、统计、测量的人报以敬畏的态度。
正因为这些,心理系往往与文科性质极强的教科院格格不入。不知这个情况何时能够改观?值得欣慰的是,如今浙大、中山大学这些综合性学校的心理学是完全独立于教科院的,例如浙大的心理系就属于理学院。
这里我不得不再次澄清这个观念,心理咨询只是心理学的一部分,甚至并不一定是主要部分。而对心理咨询这门课的学习,在中国大学心理系的课程中,几乎只占了不到五分之一的比重。在中国的主流的心理学里,心理咨询同样不占主要位置。你如果翻翻中国最权威的心理学杂志《心理学报》,你就会发现,上面都是充斥着数据以及各式各样的术语,而这些几乎完全与心理咨询行业不相关。
当然,讨论心理咨询不是本文的重点,我只是想提及心理咨询与我们这些学生的关系。我们大概会学两门与咨询相关的主干课:《心理咨询》、《临床心理学》。而至少有三分之一的同学对心理咨询具有浓厚的兴趣。但由于缺乏实践机会,大多数人的兴趣往往停留于空想。
正规的咨询培训没有,互相咨询却成了我们生活中的又一乐趣。若是A君闷闷不乐,B君可能就会凑上前问:“老兄,你怎么了,我帮你咨询下如何?”于是A君可能会一五一十地倾诉,更有甚至,还煞有其事地装成一个抑郁或是强迫症患者。也可能反过来说:“不是吧,我看你这几天好像情绪不好阿,具体说来我听听!”其实,大家都明白:我们并无真正的咨询功夫和经验,相互寻求咨询也只是博得一乐。
不过有一点不得不提到,在日常的人际交往中,不少同学还是会有意无意地,运用心理咨询课上学习的知识。比方若真是有朋友来诉苦,另一方则会倾力倾听,时不时报以点头和微笑,还颇有些咨询师的派头。因为咨询中很强调“无条件积极关注”之说,即面对来访者,应首先对其给予积极关注,其次才是运用技巧解决心理冲突。而这一点有时也有害处,有的人则有了时常对别人刨根问底的习惯,比如问及对方的早期经验、学校教育等等。殊不知,有时候朋友只是倾听就够了,若每次都将朋友当作你的咨询病人,那就要出问题了。
如果你没有从事过心理学实验的主持,你可能不知道这里的苦衷。你也许会说,不就是找几个人做做题吗?其实,做一个心理学被试远没有那么简单。因为人实在太特殊了,他们不像小老鼠,他们都是活生生的独立个体,他们都有自己的情感和体验。
我记得本人做毕业论文时,发现被试们就极为有趣。我的实验任务很简单,就是让一些词语在计算机上呈现,让被试立即写下他或她看到的词。由于设计的缘故,我就是想要一些人看得到词语,一些人看不到词语。可偏偏有的被试就找麻烦了,有一个女生就始终问道:”为什么别人看得见,我看不见呢?“看她的语气,仿佛在说,”为什么别人考试都能及格,我却不能及格呢?“我不得不安慰她,我们这个测试不是能力测试,你看不见并不反映你能力问题,这个只是简单的个体差异。” 更让我哭笑不得的事,等全部实验做完,发现实验室大门上已经不知哪位受了打击的被试画了一张哭脸,还写到自己受了深深的伤害。到这里,可以看见人是很奇妙的动物,我本来只是要把一群人的成绩汇总,根本不会关心谁的具体成绩,而每个人却对自己的成绩慎之又慎。再次验印了那句话:”每个人都是自己的宇宙“。
你若是有机会,一生中可一定要当一回心理学被试。那种感觉很奇特,这不是考试,你不需要如准备高考般努力,而事实上,你却表现得比高考更努力。你的考官却根本不关心你一个人的表现,只会关心一群人的平均成绩是否符合他或她的假设。顺便再说一句,当前对被试隐瞒实验意图已是常事,你可能被告知来测试反应快慢,而事实上考官是想观察你的记忆表现。等你发现被骗之时,考官可能会在实验室一角偷笑了。
相信看到了我们的紧张,已经让不少正在准备考研的看官轻松了不少。接下来你会问,你们因为学了心理学,至少有一套成之有效的学习方法。我的任务就是让你们更加轻松。我想说的是,的确有方法,不过有道是”无招胜有招“,有两个笨方法仿佛人人受用:抄书、背书。
抄书?抄书干什么?呵呵,当然不是机械地抄书,”抄书“是我们做笔记的代称。我们通常都会有各种大大小小的笔记本,而上自习的干的事情就是将书上的东西” 抄“到笔记本上。为什么强调抄呢?因为有时候我们觉得,我们做得工作实在是太无趣了,太没有技术含量了,有时候完全是把书上的东西原封不动的般到笔记本上,有时候觉得自己在做一件傻得不能再傻的事。后来有人借我笔记时,我一般都会说,这实在没啥看的,都是抄书了。当然,还是得承认”抄书“还是有水平高低之分,高水平者抄书的时候会自己记忆、有条理地组织知识、加入自己的思考,其实窍门也就在这儿,一般人我也不说的。不过,再怎么高明的“抄书”也有相当大的原封不动地抄书成分,所以还是称之为”抄“更让人心理踏实。
除了抄,剩下就是背了。更准确一点说是记忆笔记本上的知识。如何记忆呢?背呗!而且最好的方法是一边读一边背,所以你会惊奇地发现考研最后时期,自习室的走廊上有一群人,嘴里既不念洋文,也不念马克思,而是念着什么性格、人格、智力、主观反映等等。不用说,这群傻瓜就是我们了。心理学采用的是理科的研究方法,但是用文科的方法——诵读记忆,却是学习它的最好方法。我们一位考上北大的MM就是深喑此到。
看完了这些,相信对准备考研的看官也是增加了信心,给了些许启示吧。
确实不能,至少对一个刚毕业的心理系学生不能。去控制人、改变人,始终是件难事。而与人打交道,经验和智慧有时候往往比心理学理论重要。所以,往往会出现这种情况,你用你的经验和智慧来一步一步解决实际问题,只是在适当之处运用心理学的人际理论、激励理论等等,反而能获得成功,其效果远甚于纸上谈兵。
毕业虽然已经有些时间了,但这些感觉仍然存在。
作为一个心理学系毕业了11年的人来说,这些文字还是有很多共鸣。
虽然俺没学过心理学,但对这块人迹罕至的圣土还是非常向往的,掌控心理就掌控灵魂。人类真是个客观的动物,从来没有在心理上主观过。
呵呵 很有意思 。。。。
我是一个误打误撞来到此地的人,但是对心理学有着梦想,那是高考时的第一志愿,只可惜,没有考上。。。
不过,看了文章,觉得自己好像仍然蛮适合读的。
chuhuif@yahoo.com.cn
有意思
相比心理学和医科精神病学,更喜欢后者。
心理系的男生会谈恋爱?胡扯哦……
毕业仿佛就在昨天
心理学的知识也许在工作中应用的少
但是你仍然可以终身收益
我对心理学一D都五了解!!有时我都觉得自己好有问题(心理上的问题)!!!谁能帮我呢???
刚刚毕业
深有同感
还没毕业 共鸣到想哭~~
好文,绝对的好文。鉴定完毕。
自己也是学心理学的,很多共鸣。
绝对是好文!!!
不在自己的blog上写,贴到这上面……@_@
有意思 我是在加拿大学的心理学,所以对国内的内容很感兴趣。 因为学的是第二语言的,所以直接是理解了意思以后,加上我们考试都是选择题或则论文等,可能需要背诵的比较少////// 也没抄书/// 当然我觉得这绝对是好办法。
然后我也是一毕业就去大学的//// 一开始听课还被人当新生…… 很有意思的经历 ^-^
呵呵,有意思。有时间继续贡献两篇吧。
是啊,我也是学心理学的哦,不过才是大二,路好长啊·
就像翻老照片一样
想哭得心都有了
是感动的。怀念从前。
加油!学心理学的。
^_^ 哈哈 同感,感受颇多啊~~
还两年毕业,加油
哈哈~相当地经典
看到你的文章,感觉和我毕业的那一界好像啊,不只是不是我门班的哪位仁兄,呵呵,
考研赶着心理学的热潮
很有感触
努力吧:)
心理系的兄弟啊,
的确是很好的归纳。
圆顶实验室、田家炳顶楼的系办公室、兄弟们的卧谈……
一切都好像发生在昨天,怀念啊!
祝愿所有心理系的同仁一切顺利
哈哈,偶不是ECNU的毕业.也许所有大学的心理系都有相似之处吧.
喜欢这句:决定我们能否找到工作或是找什么样的工作,不在于我们是否是学心理的,而在于我们这个人的自身修养、智慧。
呵呵~~
期待新作~
大三啦,不想考研,想创业,大学不就是学一些让自己终身受益的DD嘛,尽管缺少技术含量,但于己无悔Y. 延迟满足感多强啊。
同系的MM
楼主你说的话简直就是说我们的经历一样,那种无奈和淡淡的忧伤中带点讽刺的感觉……只有我们学心理学的人最清楚(特别是师范类的)
说的就是我的大学生活噢!更有同感!
我是心理学专科刚毕业的
非常有同感
曾看到一篇文章这样写道:
爱上或者干上心理学这一行,免不了也染上一些心理上的职业病。归结起来,似乎以下这些我见得比较多:
1、动机分析症,这是一个中性的称呼,说得不好听一点就是“隐私偷窥症”。不论什么人,什么事,都要把人家的动机分析分析;也不管是不是在咨询,生活中也是一样,开玩笑也是如此。你说我某某癖,我就说你某某症,剩下一位就会说你们这都是“投射”。就象我在这里分析所写的东西,自我分析起来,大概也是这种职业病在起作用。
2、自大症。这也是这个职业的特点所决定的。本来,山可以测,海可以量,小小的人心,近在咫尺却永远也看不透,但是,作为心理咨询师这个行业,不仅要测量人心,看透人心,最重要的职业目的是改变人心,你看,积极在这个职业里活动的是不是都有自大的倾向。当然,有些人还有自知之明,有些人就可以演化成为“自大症”了。尤其是弗洛伊德创的什么理论,更利于这种带有偏执特点的自大症发展。例如,当咨询师对你的心理问题进行分析的时候,如果你觉得对,那么很自然,他会因此而沾沾自喜,助长了他的骄傲和自大;如果你说分析得不对,那么他说你这是“阻抗”,内心深处潜意识层面有,但意识层面不愿意承认,所以即使不对,也不会影响他的自信心,这样一来,不论他实际上说得对不对,利用精神分析理论,咨询师总是对的,这样便愈发自大起来。这似乎也是这么多咨询师喜欢精神分析的重要原因吧。
3、“超英赶美症”。自大症到了后期,就是超英赶美症,主要症状是,在学习或者翻阅了一些外国的咨询文献后(或者没有翻阅也不得而知),便自创理论,起一个大大的非常吓人的名字,比如说“宇宙超级心理治疗术”。其它的疗法都不值得一提,只有他的这种才是针对中国人的,最最有效。中国心理学如果采用了他的办法,依据了他的理论,不久就会超英赶美,世界无敌。
4、“高深莫测症”。是超英赶美症的并发症,其主要表现是不除了对自己的学问的夸耀之外,就不怎么认真的谈学术问题了,你如果认真请教,他也是常常“王顾左右而言它”,给人的感觉非常高深莫测,但究竟有多高,谁也不知道。用世俗的眼光看来,与其说象个心理学者,不如说象个气功大师,所以此症的另一个名称应该是“故弄玄虚症”。
。。。。。。
歌德的《浮士德》中有这么几行,写出了浮士德的追求和苦恼,自励和重振:
我拼命汲取智慧和才能
怎料想尽是徒劳而无功?
全部心血付诸流水
到头来落得个一事无成。
你怎能在惶惑中失掉信心,
以为走投无路、山穷水尽?
你一向是敢作敢为的男子汉,
却为何一反常态、退缩不前?
你本来天不怕地不怕,
岂能知难而退,你这傻瓜?
唉!我到而今已把哲学,
医学和法律,
可惜还有神学,
都彻底地发奋攻读。
到头来还是个可怜的愚人!
不见得比从前聪明进步;
夸什么硕士、更叫什么博士,
差不多已经有了十年,
我牵着学生们的鼻子
横冲直闯地团团转——
其实看来,我并不知道什么事情!
。。。。。。
我最欣赏纪伯伦的一句话
我说生命的确黑暗,除非有了激励;
一切激励都是盲目,除非有了知识;
一切知识都是徒然,除非有了工作;
一切工作都是虚空,除非有了爱。
呵呵,确实有很多能够引起共鸣的东西,记得当年在学变心(变态心理学)的时候,挂在嘴上最多的就是什么精分,燥狂啊,呵呵,想想当年还是蛮有意思的
心理学真是蛮可爱的!我要开始找工作了,我要努力忘记自己的专业。
呵呵
一个字:好!
一口气读下来了
累坏了
呵呵
当年读高中就是因为知道心理学是很理科的东西才没敢报考,现在才知道心理系的同学真的是很理科的.只是我还是爱从文科的角度来琢磨一下心理学.如果人的心灵都可以计算,那这个世界不是太恐怖了么?偶是人本主义支持者.相信人,解放人,以人为本,构建和谐世界.
对了,我愿意当被试,给我买只笔就行哈!虽然没有整天挂在嘴边,但我深知自己人性中的弱点还有一些很深的恐惧,验证一下也无妨.只是,心理学不能只去验证一些东西啊,要更进一步去解决才更有价值呵.
小K加油,希望三年后我们都能够学有所成.
毕业未完成,看了还是有些感触的,呵呵,K加油哦~
看了想哭啊 太生动实际了 大哥给条出路啊
有点相见恨晚啊!
真是我们的心声!!
唉,教科院….
心理学,从哲学学起
我是文科的 准备学心理学“`
看到你说几乎全部学心里学的全是理科生时
我还在想我完了
不过我现在鼓励自己一定要成功“
小小补充一点,中山大学的心理系是归属在教育学院里面的。呵呵
仿佛回到从前,教科院,心理学,,,,已经毕业多年,渐渐感悟心理学的出路其实还是很多,只不过需要结合其它有专业来使用,学校里学的”纯粹”的心理学在社会上的用途真的很有局限性,无非是做老师和继续深造.可说白了,任何职业都需要心理学的辅助,就看我们自己是想要做专门的还是综合的.我真心希望学习心理学的朋友不要放弃最初的梦想,无论是追求学术成就,还是追求实现实用价值,都是有很多的事情可以通过心理学的知识来解决.最重要的是如何运用自己所学所有,发扬自己,照亮别人,放大你的梦想.呵呵!其实心理学还是很重要很有用处.加油了,朋友!
心理學的確是運用的科學, 讀了心理學的人並不是都成為神人了, 都是一個普通人, 同樣會不理智, 會有情緒, 會失控, 只是或然率較低. 完成了心理學的本科課程, 個人認為, 對自己得着大於對他人. 如果想助人, 路還是遠的, 仍需努力!
心理学是理科的啊 完了 明年就上高二了 准备学文 将来想学心理学的 怎么办呢
大三啦,想考研,可正在读外语专业的,很想考心理学的研,并非出于什么心理学热
高考的时候就想考心理学,可是好的学校成绩达不到就只能作罢
考研应该是有一次的机会吧,不想错过。但是要怎么准备呢,好像学要看的书很多啊,谁能提供点意见啊
好久没有重温大学时期的时光,你写的许多有当年也有同感,虽然还有很多不同,感觉很温馨.
我看不懂这些,应为我是小学生.
我觉得自己并没有哪些奇奇怪怪的地方,但是爸爸告诉我”你必须看得懂”.
我觉得看这些挺有用的,希望你们也多看看噢!!!
再也找不到比这篇文章描述得更贴切得介绍了。
中国得心理学真是让人无可奈何得专业。
嘿嘿,看完此文真是觉得太高兴了,再过两个月我就将跨进大学校门了,作为一个要学心理学新生,我也可以体验这样的生活吧!
我对心理学还是有兴趣的~
但是我不会念心理学的~
像作者那样说,学在图书馆!
有没应用心理学的研究生啊 这里
很多人谈恋爱说到自己是 关于PSY的..马上很多人色变~..很多人一直在误解~.都怕自己被看穿~..其实学心理的哪有那么厉害
楼上说的是,我最近又遇到了一个.汗!
毕业好多天了,看到这篇文章,想起我们03心理班一同走过的那些日子。
无独有偶看到了这篇文章更坚定了我学心理学的信心~~~~~
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对心理学有着比其他学系更好奇的心。但始终担心自己的“钱”途。
1)想更具体,更深入,更仔细地了解心理学读的东西。
2)是不是全都得很伤脑筋,因为是关于人脑的?
3)该做什么准备?
4)可以从事什么行业?
5)持有一颗为人服务的心与热忱就够了吗?
想学心理学,一直在这里游荡,看看文章看看回复,很有意思,可惜我大学学的是艺术设计,现在却很想学心理学,虽然我也很喜欢艺术设计,可以把心理学当自己的一个爱好吧
深有同感啊!正大四了,继续考心理学研究生.
准备考综合类大学的,就是不想"师范院校教育学院",哎,其中滋味大家都知啊.哪位兄弟姐妹知道有哪些综合类大学的心理学比较强呢?谢谢
读心理学是我一直以来的梦想,探索别人或自己拿不为人知的秘密,更是一件令人振奋的事!!但是,但一个人连自己都不认识的时候,他还有资格去摸索别人的心吗?有些时候,我会觉得周遭的事情是那样的不可理喻,是那样的荒谬,却又必须无可奈何的接受。真的觉得很悲哀!!甚至有些事情来得太突然,一时显得措手不及。。。。。。。可是,在内心深处,又一颗感觉还是叫作满足。也许每个人都有些自虐倾向吧!!:)
心理学,现在看到这几个字就有种哭笑不得的感觉,毕业一年多了,只能说现实就是现实.
呵呵,我现在的选修课选的就是心理学,不过听不太懂!
呵呵,看了感受很深。作者文笔很好啊!!
我是正在学习心理咨询师,对学习心理学最大的感受是学会了用另外一种语言来理解世界,作为一个事业型的男士来说,以往的我对世界的理解过于偏向利益方面,用利益来理解世界,来解释人与人之间的关系,心理学学习以后更多的加上了感情、情绪的考量。嗯,这个好像对泡mm非常有作用哦,至少现在的我生活中的朋友圈比以前大了很多,玩的好的朋友也比以前多了。
原来自我分析在心理学研究里面是这么不受重视啊,怎么我看一些好的心理咨询师,做到最后都很注意对自己深刻的剖析,或许这就是研究和做咨询的区别吧。
另外一个,我还感觉心理学是文科呢,作为一个传统的理科生,我刚开始学习心理学的时候就感觉挺不爽,没有一个标准、统一的理论或者公式来解释所有的事情,具体什么时候运用什么理论,需要自己来把握,这个不就是文科吗??重复说一句:这也是研究和咨询的区别吗?
难怪我们学校的心理学是属于经济与管理学院的呢~~
借用楼上的 同感到想哭
还好吧,上学期曾经有过转过心理系的想法 后来还是留在原专业 课余时学学 感觉挺喜欢它的学科的研究方法 也没有想过考研的事 只是学到了实验心理学和心理统计时比较困难(因为心理系在另一个校区) 而且我们的统计课还没有开