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心理咨询师之路:你准备好了吗?(1)

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心理咨询师之路:你准备好了吗?(1)

成为心理咨询师,你准备好了吗?过去有不少朋友来信问到:我想报考心理咨询师,能否得到Psytopic的帮助及建议?从今天开始我们会针对这个话题推出系列关于《心理咨询师之路》的文章,感兴趣的朋友不妨持续关注。有了证书就能从事心理咨询吗,心理咨询能养活自己吗?在第一天的内容中,Psytopic的成员麦田将向您介绍心理咨询行业的现状和带您走入专职心理咨询师的生活。-psytopic.com

几天前,接到Psytopic的约稿,作为一名入行多年的心理咨询师,给即将考心理咨询师资格证书的朋友提点建议。我满口应允,觉得那是多么容易的事儿啊。今天我终于有了时间,摆好架式,要去完成这件事情,却发现我并不能清楚自己在做什么。这是一个好难的题目哇。

开始之前,不妨先问问自己几个问题:
你为什么想成为一名心理咨询师?是什么原因或动机让你想要跨入这个行业?你对这个行业了解多少?对自己即将从事的工作有什么期待?你是否的确适合加入?想要加入需要经过哪些程序?之后又会面临什么问题呢?

一、你是否真正了解心理咨询行业的现状和前景

近几年,电视栏目中有关心理咨询的内容日渐增多,心理类图书也网上网下全线热销,原来深居校宅的专家教授们也开始抛头露面风光无限,去年的地震,今年的金融危机,不期而至的还有越来越大的各种压力,更多的人身心疲惫。心理咨询,离我们越来越近,不论是去咨询别人还是被别人咨询,都显得那么充分必要。

有很多资料可以去查,网络时代,最不需大动干戈最觉着大快人心的就是谷歌和百度的搜索引擎,你可以知道,国外平均一万人中有多少心理咨询师,中国是多少,按国外标准,目前中国的心理咨询师的市场还有多大的缺口,按照国外的心理咨询师的收入即使再打个折扣,中国的一个执业的心理咨询师的收入也是一个不错的数字,而且,还沾着些时尚,而且,还越老越吃香,是个永远不会退休的职业。想想真的是“钱”景无量、一“本”万利啊。

因着希望,因着勇敢,从2001年8月劳动和社会保障部颁文、2002年7月开办首期职业资格心理咨询师培训试点,到现在为止,已经有很多的先驱趟过那条尚未清晰的河流,河的对岸有着怎样的风景?

――在有执照的心理咨询师当中,真正从事心理咨询行业的不到10%,就业率不容乐观。
――真正通过从事心理咨询工作,个人收入达到当地基本收入水平的人不到10%。
――真正赢利的心理咨询机构不到10%。

原因有很多,下述的只是其中的部分:
中国的文化特别提倡内敛,对心理疾病讳如莫深。心理有问题并不等于要咨询。
大部分心理咨询机构属于私人开业,没有政府和大的财团做后盾,纯粹商业化市场运作,独立面对生存与竞争。
国人的心理咨询费用不属于任何医保或商业保险的范围,需要来访者自己买单。

二、走近专职心理咨询师的生活――心理咨询师典型的一天

在私人开设的心理咨询机构里,你的生存是以小时计价来出售时间。

在咨询室里,等到预约好的来访者,倾听他谈他的困惑,看他在完全陌生的你面前坦露他内心最隐密的苦衷,真诚地倾听,温暖地共情,无条件地接纳,按照自己喜欢的习惯的那种门派风格来处理问题……
你可以在这个过程中窥探一个又一个隐密的灵魂,过一种充满好奇心的生活,在他人最脆弱最敏感的时刻与他们分享亲密和充满关心的人际关系,感觉到你的努力已经使他人产生了巨大的改变,通过影响他人的生活使这个世界更加美好,因为他人需要的知识、并做他人羡慕的事情而享有控制感,不断受到刺激和挑战面对你自己未解决的问题,并增强你对于人性和这个世界的理解,通过反省和沉思,发明出更多的解决问题的途径,你的快乐和满足感也会增长,当你日臻成熟,或许可以体会到那种宁静平和及高峰体验般的幸福感…

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小小的斗室内风起云涌,惊涛骇浪,气象万千,来访者把他们面临的人生难题一个又一个地抛给了你,你有可能被痛苦的巨浪淹没,有可能被情绪的垃圾塞满,有可能被供成救世主前一分钟自恋后一分钟被责难,有可能黔驴技穷,也有可能不堪负重,当来访者打来电话取消预约时你由衷地松了一口气…

没有预约的咨询时你可以整理个案记录,有可能无事可做,或者被来访者充塞的垃圾需要自己处理或付费督导,你未解决的问题把你卡住了需要你自己去寻找成长的途径,你的技术需要提高而要去学习去参加培训,你的收入不足以养活自己需要做另外的事情来赚钱,去搞讲课讲座或去撰稿?不得而知。

或者因此,你不可能考虑专职,只是挂在某个机构下兼职,用你主职的收入,使你逐渐地进入这个未来也许可能一定会阳光灿烂的行业。

三、你为什么要成为一个心理咨询师?

我查过网上的种种理由,为了就业,为了创业,为了解决自己内心的困惑,为了帮助别人,为了给自己的职业锦上添花……或者因为理想主义、利他心、兴趣、成长的渴望、热情和同情、想获得成就感和别人的尊敬,出于对人性的好奇,想用控制感来平衡内心的窘迫和寂寞。

你的动机可以决定你能够走多远。
如果你地想通过加入此行业就业或创业,通过前面的分析你也了解到,你需要做好充分的思想准备;
而你若真的是来淘金的,那是要换一个地方了;

如果你见不得别人受苦、满腔热情、强烈地想要帮助别人摆脱痛苦,那是你自己还有重大的问题没有解决,通过让他人变得健康快乐而让自己觉得有价值有意义,来摆脱自己内心深处的绝望无助懦弱孤独,意即通过拯救别人来拯救自己,过度的利他心终有一天会让你觉得耗竭而让自己的人生变得失去意义,且不说你对别人的帮助是否真的有帮助;

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如果你只是想让自己的本职工作做得更好更有质量,把心理咨询知识作为了解他人、了解人性的一个辅助工具,那是一件不错的事情;

如果你想更了解自己、解决自己的困惑、抚平生命中曾有的创伤,通过获得资格证书的学习可能会帮你处理掉一部分,但这样的目的可以有多种方式来达到,选择心理咨询师的认证考试从经济上时间上方式上不管怎么说也不算很合适,最多是事倍功半吧。想要帮助别人,还有更长的路要走。

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UPDATED 2010-05-11
心理咨询师之路:你准备好了吗?(2)
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(To be continued)

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  1. rayson:2010-05-07 0:02 AM

    101

    心里有问题才好学。更能体会其中的意义。

  2. 小烈焰:2010-05-11 15:30 PM

    102

    我高中的志愿就是想读心理学专业,可是高考不理想。
    上次我上网查询,好像考心理资格证要本科以上学历。不知道是不是?

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    麦田:2010-05-17 22:13 PM

    103

    回102小烈焰:
    你可以到当地的心理咨询师考证机构去咨询,一般的要求都是本科可以报考二级心理咨询师,专科可以报考三级,也就是心理咨询员。
    读心理学有多种渠道,不是非要拿一张心理咨询师证书才能了解心理学哦:)

  4. 若若:2010-08-10 18:42 PM

    104

    真的对心理学很感兴趣,乐于倾听,也希望因为我的努力可以尽量帮助一些人快乐起来。

  5. doubleless:2010-09-29 19:17 PM

    105

    我觉得应该不简单把。毕竟文化的领域不同。我是觉得我喜欢看着人快乐。他们快乐我也快乐。我就想学了

  6. jessie:2010-11-19 21:14 PM

    106

    其实,我感觉如果从充实自己,了解人性的角度来看,对于非专业人士来讲是个不错的选择~坦白说,我宁愿拿考证的时间多看基本心理书籍和案例~考证虽然从一定角度来说是让非专业人士了解一些心理学基础,但目前来看,应试成份很大~

  7. 保持愉快心情:2010-12-31 11:34 AM

    107

    心理学不错我也想多了解

  8. 格格:2011-02-07 16:46 PM

    108

    我是一名临床专业的在读大学生,对心理学很感兴趣。平时和学校从事心理咨询的老师也有过接触,但是对如何往心理咨询师这条路上发展仍旧一头雾水。我不知道该如何就该方面进行相关的学习和培训还有报考,不知道有相关知识的朋友可否指点一二,谢谢!

  9. 这就是梦:2011-04-09 16:05 PM

    109

    这就是梦~

  10. 草莓味的猪:2011-06-14 15:45 PM

    110

    @我想对 明紫荆 说:
    不是啊,都是文理兼收的

  11. 幸福懒懒虫:2011-08-07 0:53 AM

    111

    看着现在日渐增多的有心理问题的人们,我特别想拯救,想让他们重新回到充满阳光的生活中,我身边有很多多多少少的心理存在阴霾的亲人和朋友,很多时候我想帮他们,但是自己不专业,想学习心理学,让所有人生活里充满真善美

  12. 涵涵:2011-11-16 10:44 AM

    112

    我对心理咨询师特别有情节,也说不清就是特别喜欢。我是一个喜欢思考的人好多问题虽然想到啦,但总是支离破碎,我想从基础学起,成为一名合格的咨询师。不知道如何报名如何学习,请给指点。

  13. 高手寂寞:2012-01-30 14:54 PM

    113

    麦田老师的话给我一点信心,我一直希望通过心理学来了解他人与自己,以期望自己能为这个社会贡献一分微薄之力,我可能不会从事相关工作,但心理学一定会为我今后的人生提供重要的帮助

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