如果问我四年来专业的学习,给予我的最大财富是什么。我想我会不假思索地回答:是一种心理学的视角。以这个独特的视角去看待世事,尤其是人的行为、思想,会有一种全新的感受。-psytopic.com
一眨眼,在福大的四年美好时光所剩无几,越是临近毕业,越是想为所学的心理学写些什么。哪怕那些想法不成熟甚至稚嫩,但起码,是我真切感受到的,想说的。
如果问我四年来专业的学习,给予我的最大财富是什么。我想我会不假思索地回答:是一种心理学的视角。以这个独特的视角去看待世事,尤其是人的行为、思想,会有一种全新的感受。勿庸置疑,这种看世界看个人的角度是自己从前所完全陌生的。四年前的我连弗洛伊德是何方神圣都不晓得,在四年的专业学习和心理学氛围潜移默化的熏陶下,现在的我渐渐习惯于这样一种视角。习惯于从一些不为常人所注意的细节去观察一个人,习惯于通过一个人的童年经历去更好地了解他,习惯于应用同理,注意倾听,不轻易为他人做决定……而且,在这样的视角中,自己还渐渐感受到一种悲天悯人的强大力量。我们所见到的许多看似可恶之人,可恨之事,背后往往都有着不易为人所知的心理原因。学了心理学,我们对人性会有更深的理解。表象往往并不可靠。一个狂妄自大的人骨子里或许是个极度自卑的人,一个总是热情过度的人可能是为了掩饰其冷漠。心理学犹如一把锋利的手术刀,剖开那些表层的幻影,直抵人性深度,令人敬畏。
如果您对这篇文章感兴趣,相信你会对
PSYTOPIC同样感兴趣,网址是Psytopic.com ,这次点击不会浪费您的时间。这是Psytopic的指纹密码:aHR0cDovL3d3dy5wc3l0b3BpYy5jb20v,您可以凭这个指纹在google搜索到我们的网站。
是的,心理学是把手术刀。当我们拿起这把锋利无比的刀时,免不了要先对自己动手。这是一种好奇,一种在未学深厚可应用于他人时的试验,一种学心理学者所特有的甚至于牺牲的精神。因为好奇而开始的自我探索、自我剖析,有时把握不好力度,难免鲜血淋漓,痛苦不堪,甚至不可自拔。有一种偏见说学心理学的都是精神有毛病的人,都是疯子。如果退一万步讲,确实部分存在这种现象的话,也是因为心理学的手术刀在肤浅的快乐下,挖出了深刻的痛苦。对人性的丑陋一面,不可理喻一面没有足够宽容的话,恐怕很难接受这些图景。
所以,我强调心理学的视角的种种益处,但也需要提醒的是,心理学的视角毕竟也只是世间各种看问题的视角之一,并非万能良药。也并不需要完全地拘泥于其中。心理学是最接近于人性本身的学科之一,但也存在一叶障目的可能。毕竟,看待人性的视角还有经济学、社会学、医学、政治学……种种视角综合,才能为我们呈现出一幅更加丰富也更加全面更加真实的人性画卷。
所以当我们限于心理学的眼光对某些问题心烦意乱甚至心灰意冷时,需要有所跳出,以旁观者的角度审视一切。认识自己本就是世间近乎最难的事,也并非一朝一夕所能完成。而现有的不少心理学观点,尤其以传统的精分为代表,对人性有着悲观灰暗的看法,也值得认真审视。并非说悲观就一定错误,但也需要多多考量其他观点,以做出更为公正的判断。积极心理学的兴起从侧面反映出以往心理学的消极特征的过度泛滥。我们身在其中,也不免会受其影响。
总而言之,心理学与人类幸福息息相关,学心理学有着诸多益处,但我们要使之为我们服务,而非被其奴役。这其中度的把握,这其中的智慧,就有待大家细细品味了:)
Written psychological-benedictine-college-campus
If you asked me four years of professional study, to my greatest asset is. I think I would answer without hesitation: a psychological perspective. This unique perspective to look at things, especially human behavior, thought, there will be a new experience. -Psytopic.com
Blink of an eye, in the four years of good times great blessing depleted, the more close to graduation, the more we want to write about the science of psychology. Even if those ideas mature or immature, but at least, I really feel, and want to say.
If you asked me four years of professional study, to my greatest asset is. I think I would answer without hesitation: a psychological perspective. This unique perspective to look at things, especially human behavior, thought, there will be a new experience. Needless to say, this view of the world to see past their own personal point of view is the complete stranger. Four years ago, I do not even know that Freud was and source, in the study for four years and under the influence of psychological atmosphere of subtle, now I gradually accustomed to such a perspective. Accustomed to from a number of not paying attention to the details of ordinary people to observe a person, used by a person's childhood experiences to better understand him, used to apply the same token, pay attention to listen, not easily make decisions for others ... ... and, In this Perspective, their compassion is also gradually feel a powerful force. We see the person that may seem abhorrent, detestable things, often have a difficult back-known psychological cause. Studied psychology, we will have a deeper understanding of human nature. Representation is often not reliable. An arrogant person who deep down may be a very inferior person, a person who is always over-enthusiasm may be to hide their indifference. Psychology is like a sharp scalpel, cut open the surface of the phantom who, reaching the depth of human nature, awesome.
Yes, psychology is the scalpel. When we took it to extremely sharp knives, the inevitable first on yourself. It is a curiosity, a depth in the study can be applied to other people without the time trial, a school psychologist or even unique to the spirit of sacrifice. Out of curiosity and begin to self-exploration, self-analysis, and sometimes mishandled efforts, inevitably bloody, painful, or even can not extricate himself. There is a bias that psychology, mental illnesses are people who are mad. If the concession say that there is indeed some of the words of this phenomenon, but also because of Psychology under the scalpel in superficial happiness, dug a deep pain. The ugly side of human nature, ridiculous side of tolerance is not enough, then it would be difficult to accept the picture.
Therefore, I emphasize the perspective of psychology, the various benefits, but also need to be reminded that the perspective of psychology, after all, only the perspective of this world one of a variety of view, is not a panacea. Does not need to stick to them completely. Psychology is the closest to one of humanity's own discipline, but there are blinders that possibility. After all, look at the perspective of human nature also economics, sociology, medicine, political science ... ... all the comprehensive perspective, will give us presents an even richer and more comprehensive picture of the true human nature.
So when we look for some limited psychological upset or disheartened when the problem needs to be out of, look, looking at everything. Understanding of their world this is almost the hardest thing, is not something that can be completed. Many of the existing psychological point of view, in particular, into the essence of the traditional representatives of human nature has a pessimistic view of gray, also merits serious examination. Is not that pessimistic on certain errors, but also need to consider lots of other points to make a more fair ruling. The rise of positive psychology psychology from the side reflects the negative features of the previous over-proliferation. We are in them, will inevitably be affected.
In short, psychology and human well-being is closely related to psychology has many benefits, but we make of our services, rather than by their enslavement. This one degree of certainty the wisdom of which, it should be left to savor a:)
suggest a better translation.
Guest:2010-07-26 15:44 PM
怎么感觉什么都没说似地。
Guest:2010-07-26 21:32 PM
大四的学生么?
写出来这些东西真的很不错,顶一下~
Guest:2010-07-26 22:57 PM
我也觉得心理学的奥妙就在与其处~
Guest:2010-07-27 18:48 PM
基本扯淡
Guest:2010-07-27 20:35 PM
助己助人。
roger:2010-07-28 8:44 AM
再回首恍然若梦,再回首我心依旧
liwaniuniu:2010-08-16 15:10 PM
得了吧 我不假思索地告诉你:心理学你是白学了
Guest:2010-08-27 16:08 PM
这个心理学视角到底是什么?读了还是不懂。
Guest:2010-09-04 14:37 PM
也就是说心理学就是多一种思维方式麽..
老狼:2010-09-05 22:11 PM
心理学大的就是救人 小的话就是 为自己服务和理解和沟通
洛:2010-09-24 23:08 PM
美丽却无用的词句
Guest:2010-12-19 13:26 PM
越说越糊涂了 只有一点 视角 这个词还有点意思
迷茫者:2011-02-04 3:27 AM
天花乱坠的背后受了实质的东西,写心理注定是场面对痛苦的鏖战吗??
蓝樱:2011-02-28 17:12 PM
没看懂···
◕ิิ.◕ 打酱油滴:2011-05-19 15:47 PM
没吸引力
笨小孩:2011-07-06 18:49 PM
说实话..这篇文章很浅..真正学了心理学不会只有这么点知识..
基本的逻辑思维都没有..什么是心理学视角..你没有解释.
泛泛而谈..
天羽飞翼:2011-10-18 12:12 PM
入情入理,入木三分
我来说两句