1. Stakeholders to Spouse Choosing to the heart, can only become a transaction, a marriage of cooperatives, a partner, but can not be true love.

2. People are willing to eulogize faithful, Baekdu Xielao love, love is precisely because of this rare…… demise of love is quite normal…… certainly not normal nor is it a bad thing, just like a normal elephant is gray, white elephant Is not normal, the white elephant But, said a beast.

3. Love of the three centres: the first Centre (attention rational); Heart Centre (attention to emotional); of the Centre (to sex)…… the ideal marriage: they are close friends in the living room, the kitchen is affectionate warmth of a family, In bed with a fever the vitality of the animals…… When Xin Xu, "Shear continued, the rationale chaotic", may wish to "the tripartite talks."

4. Sharply not only tolerance, it will become acute sharp…… When you find someone else's problems, we should remind ourselves: "not necessarily the case," because we have other people's judgement, often based on symptoms only, and not necessarily accurate . Others show really made a mistake or shortcoming, you should say: "People will inevitably……"

6. Imitation is the greatest compliment…… When you imitate a person's posture, you will have the same feeling with him, which you can know that he has the emotional

7. The warm chat friends, although the subject matter of different, but most of the time in the expression: "We have a common -"
To find common ground in the self-introduction, including vocational, name, home, school, family, etc.
Looking for experienced / ideas and feelings / appearance, personality similarities

8. Should "act", to play our own role in environmental permitting, Xiediao makeup, and reveal their true character. Even if the "acting", a clear mind should at all times what they are doing, do not be deceived…… in their interpersonal relations, in general, the more popular, public nature of the occasion, the more a courtesy exchanges, The more than alienation, the communication between strangers, the greater the need, "acting" to meet the expectations of the community; more private, personal nature of the activities, the exchanges between close friends, the less you can "act" …… After all, sometimes we "act," not to deceive others, but the role demands. The other side knowing that you are "acting" you see is the acting.

9. "Yitiandaowan was in other people happy music, there is no trouble, only I live so miserable", "no emergency copied others, on how I was captured," and "all others look down on me", "Other people are so Shi Liyan And the behind the scenes to find my faults "…… people need to have two contrary, is to find a common ground for themselves and others, and the other is to find themselves with others of different points to prove that their unique. As the latter needs, imagine the "others", and is often imagine themselves in contrast, is their contrasting…… "others" is the on-screen background…… "others" and "own" is just On the contrary.
Habitat At Heart, "other people" is not for others, is your own. Therefore, as long as we change the hearts of the self-image, "others" also will be changed…… our troubles, in the final analysis should be responsible for their own

10. Lao Haoren seems to be always good to others and will never refuse to others, the others will never be angry. But how likely a person will not be angry » How others may be happy to meet all the requirements of this » …… In fact they dare not express anger, others dare not refuse…… in fact it is kind of cowardly.

11. (Psychological testing), "imagine you in a grassy field, to see some bees, you want the bees, how would you do»
You can open up a think, may in fact not the impossible "……
Testing the attitude of treating the opposite sex. With net capture - too active. Nien fly paper - is overly dependent on. Bees thorn fear - the fear of men. Imagine themselves into a beautiful flower Right!

12. "If this disaster is meaningful and what is its significance» "

13. Love in the psychological examination:
You want to have the same right of way of life » If the marriage than for a ride, when you got into cars when the vehicles should first ask another person intends to drive to where…… If you completely different from the destination, whether or not the car for the Miao .
If they strengthened the shortcomings of the current three times, how long can you be patient » Marriage does not depend on the success you have to enjoy each other's advantages, but you can tolerate each other's shortcomings in love…… If you find each other during a sub shortcomings, the flaws in the marriage may be a Third, there must be sufficient psychological preparation.
You need the other side can give you » You need the other side can give you » More here refers to the psychological needs.
In order to adapt to each other, they need to change or disguise the number of places » A person with a gentleman ladies is not difficult, difficult life posturing is not reveal the truth. Tam Road without much light, the marriage date for a long time, in order to meet any of the other party or to please let you exhausted all efforts to the contrary, if you are very close in various aspects, without any disguise and will be able to change each other like you, After the marriage there would be no such a feeling of fatigue.

13. "Lanling Wang": this is Lanling Wang tribe in a brave good boy, he looks Junmei, unfortunately, is his appearance he has become the obstacle. In the war, the enemy underestimate him, even though he is very brave, but did not Weishi, he failed. Distressed he would like to find a new face, finally found is the use of the Shenmu Ke Cheng Zhengning mask. He had to wear this mask, and became afraid of the enemy hero. However, the new has come from the unfortunate, it has occupied a mask of him, and he became like masks, like the ruthless tyrant. He could not get out of this mask. The final story, is his mother to death with blood the price before wake-up call for him, he got rid of this horrible mask.
The legend of the original play was very touching, because it was referring to the history of the soul…… Lanling Wang everyone has to face the dilemma: if we do not always like children, like wearing masks, life on the battlefield, We will fail. If wearing masks, we will be successful, but the loss of self-the loss of Zhenqingshigan.

14. We have some problems, if we carefully analyze their hearts, these troubles is not also a means of avoiding other problems? »

15. We are often very emotional, good mood when the children make mistakes can be relatively light sentence, if the children catch up with the unfortunate when we feel bad, we may Dafaleiting…… children for no reason at all to know from the truth: "The key is not Its what has been done, but parents at the time of emotional "……" the rule of law "in the family, there are rules, parents and children must abide by the rules - a daughter watch things, we must. The mother said, "I know you want to, do not you know it is very difficult to buy you. Can not be bought buy, but I allow you to cry. I was your mother, I will accompany you in the store cry. On how long you Yaoku How long cry, tears came to our home. "Daughter in the store crying over two hours, will accompany her for so long. Later, her daughter's stubborn behavior has improved significantly.

16. Shuiduishuicuo many habits can not be said, as long as there is no significant harm, not trying to change each other.

17. Knife throwing each other of the game: throwing knife between the two sides are very familiar with the people, they know where the other side of the Gate of Life…… knife knife from one crucial point, knife Daozha human heart. Moreover, this game is more of the brutal, after Yidao Yidaogenghen more than before, this is a no winners of the game, two people in the game are blood Lin Li.

18. Outward task of law: the "supervision" of the original domestic attention toward the outside world, so too busy to pay attention to other people so concerned about your own.

19. Matthew's Law: that already have, to give him more, it does not, he has only claimed.

20. Is a good (gestalt): the causes of mental illness is a was not completed.

21. In fact, everyone is a book, but read it more difficult for others to read than their own. Continue to live in, the book will continuously enrich the content, then on their own and others I will not stop reading. Life, because this will be read and deep and beautiful.

22. "Woman, emotion always better than the concept. Ideological and often only the cloak of emotion." Know this, men and women do not dispute truth, and to think about her adhere to this view entirely the wrong reason behind There is a certain emotion, sentiment guess this is what to do to address emotional regulation. Women are going to understand their own hearts, and be good at expressing their emotions.

23. In your judgement of others, may wish to ask ourselves two questions: one is that he has shortcomings, I still use their own standards imposed » People have different standards of conduct, as long as the other side of the sound of others and society, it should be allowed to exist. I comment on two others, the heart is not hostile » If there is hostility, we should first review their own.

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