"Since then, the prince and princess lived a happy life, until the end." Finish the story, let us start now a reality: a pair of husband and wife elite only see late at night while other work is not the time to socialize; on the Internet and friends in full flight But the person at home and not bother to say a few words; I love him (her)? Yes, but I do not intend to complete his (her) the loss of self. Whether you admit that does not recognize the "mini three" has become a topic (if you do not know what is third, see the article). Do not want to look back pain when K Eason Chan's "10 years", then invited to do marriage right testing, which allows us to adjust to each other along the way, with their marriage another a Cape. -psytopic.com


Marriage annual test

Sometimes, the need for marriage will be able to do routine annual inspection, sometimes, you need to carry out annual inspection of emergency, especially when these signals.

1, recently encountered a friend to go out together, he did not take the initiative to introduce your identity.

2, over the weekend at home you all the help, do not want anyone proposed something together - for example, to see a movie.

3, do you think he thinks you are totally different.

4, no one is sex proactively request that it become a routine.

5, opened his wardrobe, frowning, said, "how do you have so many new clothes" - each more than once you pass through the.

6, you know where his colleagues that he had promoted last week.

7, single colleagues in one way or another, you always like to go to carnival.

8, you never read the guide to marriage and the feelings of the book.

If you meet over a more than stealing off so you need to read the following words --


No. 1-year marriage

"Gradually lost / magnetic field close / red light / light of the sad", Hacken Lee is the "marriage" in the lyrics, show that flash in marriage to marry the highest divorce rate in paragraph 1. The couple fell in love for many years at this time are also at high risk, although enough to understand each other's character, but the marriage means a comprehensive change in the state of life, 365 days 24 hours relative, before many of the hidden contradictions exposed one by one, most likely on the habits Couples in love in a state of impact.

Annual inspection emphasis: lifestyle

Zaoshuizaoqi Wanshui the same whether or evening? Whether or not eating the same light or spicy tropic mad? Love hanging around with idle time out to rest or at home? Do not look down on a small fraction of these pieces of brain matter, they should be troubled by a month of your 30th, 1st 2nd have to say, for a long time if you really want to be no coordination of human life. In order to catch the outbreak has not yet before you plan to do a good job as soon as possible. For example, to find a compromise acceptable to both sides of the line, or an appointment by the percentage of concession.

No. 2-year marriage cloth

This is a happy marriage is essential in the period. Many conflicts in the past one year, the accumulated, at this time to change into the period. With the waning of the passion for the wedding, the two sides on many issues tended to be more rational thinking - and I love him (her)? Yes, but I do not intend to complete his (her) the loss of self. Such a direction is right, people can not live every day in the honeymoon, but it'll have a good grasp of the process of strength.

Annual inspection emphasis: Finance

A small number of people before marriage on the financial problems did well clear thinking, and the signing of an agreement or pre-marital property notarization is very effective. However, most of the people, or rather, the vast majority of people did not want to understand too. In any case, marriage, money aside to spend with Bai. It took some time and found the defect-infested, "she month Shuabao their credit card, I would also like to!" "He loves to buy stocks I do not stopping, how can I put a deposit has occupied?" To sit down soon Families discuss your financial plans, how much do extract a month to share the family, leaving the number of disposable personal and family who care to invest ... ... I believe that the economy is based on the superstructure all the necessary safeguards.

Paper No. 3-year marriage

According to the research biologist, married three years later, the love hormone secretion has stabilized - an analogy that just like a dismantled after Nongzhuang face seem even more bleak than usual feeling, always In some people find fault with his time than strangers. This is not the case, for all spouses only tune expectations too high. To enter this phase of the husband and wife no longer be violent quarrel, but easy for some trivial matters some of the frequent disputes.

On the Internet and endless friends and family that are too lazy to speak more personal? This is dangerous signal to remind you of marriage faster gaps. The most important thing is a lot more fun out of small patterns, follow the "secret of a happy marriage", a common culture or hobbies are good choices, Biexian cliches, often talking about is the truth.

No. 4 wire-year marriage

Many urban families will choose in this life and feelings are more stable period of birth to a baby. Congratulations on your successful upgrade, but would like to remind, is the family at this time of crisis in relations between the peak. Mrs. easy pregnancy unstable; prone to post-natal depression; These are challenges for marital relations. But these are temporary, and that only came to live on a small set of guys, is the long-term challenges.

Annual inspection emphasis: family balance

Advisers often deal with emotions such a case: the new father of the baby to eat vinegar, the eyes of his wife that he had not. The new mother also complained that the children clearly in need of care, the President also at this time a little more special. Should have a stable family home more than two of the world peace. Therefore, the new parents who, to this year's annual inspection focused on the relationship between family balance, a lot of psychological inquiry partnership feelings in a timely manner to the well-being of the new share.

No. 5-year marriage

This year will be known as the marriage-appropriate, as it has become an increasingly firm, on the other hand, described it as many times crossed the tea, is slowly Biandan, if not the heart to operate, it will go down in the direction Weitongjiaola. Details on the results seem to improve much, it is time for the marriage on the basis of the contents of the hard up and down the next.

Annual inspection emphasis: Sex

Do not really accurate data, the first act of "Chinese human life" comparison, your sex life in terms of quality and quantity is also satisfactory? The last time Chuangxi pleasant surprise in how long ago? If you do not want so long ago and his brother and sister's match, when the life of these fixtures quickly and cost-stage focus charge it!


No. 6 iron-year marriage

Narrowly in their sixth year, must not be taken lightly, seven asylum for the aged in close proximity, and to the fast-paced modern life, the crisis may have hidden quietly. At this point, our proposal is to increase the frequency of small-scale inspection, Shaosiduocan on all aspects of married life to an investigation thoroughly to remove all the hidden dangers.

Annual inspection emphasis: the time together

More and more couples in Europe and America, the time for the family. Early in the evening to go home, turn off the TV, a family, do crossword puzzles or chat, family love just right. This is worthy of study, we often encounter situations is that a husband and wife only in the elite see a late-night, the rest of the all-time entertainment in the others. Be sure to schedule in the last lap to a spouse, to the family.

Article 7 of copper-year marriage

"Seven year itch" in the actor's final home, but in reality there are more and more cases to write the opposite outcome. Whether you admit that does not recognize the "mini three" has become a topic. As long as things happened, injury is inevitable - Bengguan make compromises or make a clean break. Facing the reality that the best way is to take preventive measures.

Do not waste time on hold, "he did not travel with a gift for me" or "last night that he was not Shen yong," to show their spouses Shenmeipilao points is no big deal, but if I packed my things in a limited edition perfume is the excuse it To colleagues, or on the bed thing to push up on the fast action ... ... I hope before too late.

No. 8-year marriage Xinhua

The kindergarten children, Mr. and promotion, and as hostess of you may have been on full-time housewife's life, everyone laments, however well-being of the family! Really good, but do be careful, we housewife culture is not as developed as Europe and the United States, will not pay attention to a little "house woman", without knowing its age.

Annual inspection emphasis: charge

This is a bit unfair to women, she must bear most of the family, but also to ensure self-growth, or that you too will be freshman small step backward. It does not matter, you have to tell themselves, only more gene talents will be facing these challenges. Application courses, to participate in the quality of clubs, travel abroad ... ... all the good qualities of self-enhancing ways.

No. 9-year marriage Tao

Still continue with this stage of the proposition, how to enhance their strength, so that children can be proud to invite you to his parents will be opened to let in any dinner partners need to think of the time you can let your friends For benchmarking efforts? In addition to the strengthening of internal self-cultivation, in appearance to focus on efforts to the next.

Annual inspection emphasis: charisma

Stars similarly, the 40-year-old Maggie Cheung is still up for dumping, but it was the first on 30 Gangchu be ridiculed, "should retire", shows that age is not the determining factor, you have no reason at this time on their own laissez-faire into the ranks of the housewife. When a woman has on fashion and beauty of voice, and then adhere to attend courses to enhance the quality, shiny appearance of a Mature, enthusiastic applause.

No. 10 tin-year marriage

According to the example of a large number of studies have shown that this year, after a happy marriage is about to enter a degree of stability or slow the interval. The vast majority of problems in the past 10 years has been resolved. Perhaps there is still the old state house on fire, but your ability to fire long tempering to the super-class.

Annual inspection emphasis: communication loop

Expand the idea from the external environment to carry out annual inspection of the marriage. Your social circle ratio how much? This will pose a threat to marital happiness factor? Do you have their own separate circle of friends? What are the friends of which can be trusted in an emergency? What you will also have a positive impact on the positive?


10 years after the marriage is still a long way to go, the inspection should continue. By that time, however, believe that marriage is erudite, you no longer need to tell you what to do should be all right, I hope you will carry forward the spirit of the annual inspection, reached the golden, diamond marriage ... ... or create new records .

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