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What to let their own happiness. You
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suggest a better translation.
Matt: @ 安达
快乐本身就是不可量化的一种感知，何必非要去寻找一...
emily: 写的蛮好的
想着想着就真的快乐了
旺德福: 我觉得不快乐的时候多是我们没有得到想要得到的东西
不管这东...
choney: 我觉得快乐是健康的附属品。身体棒的时候，整个人是阳光的，有活...
: 我觉得对别人好，能让我感到快乐
夜幕下的虫子: 这样的道理好像人们大都了解，可执行起来就不是那么容易
...
鱼的眼泪: 很认真地看了,看了以后也想了很多.个人认为有的时候自己应该是...
不快乐大多数都是自己打的,找了不快乐自然就不会快乐了.
这样的道理好像人们大都了解，可执行起来就不是那么容易
但我明白一点比较容易做到，不开心的事少去想或不去想（在人们看来，这样又好似在逃避着什么）
平常心很重要
lee:2009-04-13 18:00 PM
下意识的告诉自己，我很快乐。当朋友问你时，也要表现出积极因子，自己很快乐，久而久之，自己就是快乐的人了。
当面对快乐时，尽情的去享受这一刻的快乐；当面对不如意时，想一想还不如自己的那些人，也会感觉到一丝丝欣慰，其实自己是幸运的。
安达:2009-04-13 18:36 PM
还是觉得没那么简单
快乐定义太空
真的只有切身体会
如何更快乐，恐怕只有更真实
写的蛮好的
想着想着就真的快乐了
我觉得快乐是健康的附属品。身体棒的时候，整个人是阳光的，有活力的，体内的阴霾就无所遁形，自然会容易快乐；身体不好的时候，坏病毒坏细胞也能让你不断的唉声叹气。。。
@ 安达
快乐本身就是不可量化的一种感知，何必非要去寻找一个定义呢？况且每个人的定义都可能会不一样。我们只是想快乐，而不是去成为研究快乐的专家，不是吗？
\(^o^)/~
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@ choney
你不觉得你是在人为主观的剥夺别人快乐的权利吗？快乐是一种心态。健康的身体条件诚然或许是能更容易的快乐，但断不能说不健康就不快乐。
prangel123:2009-04-14 22:59 PM
强迫的方法往往并不能让自己得到真正的快乐，主要是实行起来比较困难，有时感觉有点像自我安慰，没有做到一个真实的自己。倘若有一天遇到莫大的压力所有的悲伤恐怕又会爆发，因而个人认为切实的方法还是从提高心理素质入手。凡多愁善感的人经历甚少。因此应主动迎接生活中的困难，对困难提出切实际的方法，而不是在角落里哭泣，那样于事无补。相信战胜困难后你会变得坚强不容易那么悲痛莫名了。
znasy2k:2009-04-14 23:49 PM
我已经放大了我的快乐~
Koala Choi:2009-04-15 15:54 PM
很好的一篇文章。我想补充的是，运动也是保持快乐的一种很好的方式！保证每天一定量的有氧运动，对身心健康有益不说，你想不快乐都难！
安达:2009-04-16 19:43 PM
@Matt
呵呵，没想到楼主居然有回复
我的意思并不是要去定义快乐
首先我也认为快乐无法定义，这是一个情感上的体验，何况在不同时候不同经历都可能体验到愉快的情绪
第二虽然大家不想成为研究快乐的专家，但势必所有人都想变得更快乐，或者在不快乐的时候都能尽快的恢复愉快，可以说至少能掌控自己的快乐不是吗？
最后我想说：更真实的是自己的体验，这比快乐要重要的多，知道自己快乐或不快才能理性和冷静吧
我觉得不快乐的时候多是我们没有得到想要得到的东西
不管这东西是不是该属于你的
我认为不要太注重结果，去努力吧，一直保持着努力，努力干自己喜欢的事情，努力追求自己喜欢的人，努力寻找自己喜欢的生活，但不要经常抬起头来等待，只要我们做了，幸福就会在不经意间到来，生活是简单而充实的
而在我们快乐的时候，我们不知道自己快乐，只觉得时间过得很快，事后回忆起来能泛起笑容
我们没有理由不快乐！
很认真地看了,看了以后也想了很多.个人认为有的时候自己应该是一个快乐地人,可是看着身边朋友们的笑,却总觉得自己很孤独.
在我的心里总是缺少着什么,朋友感觉不到,家人也感觉不到,在我的笑容后面那种深深的哀伤总是伴随着自己.我想快乐,可是我躲不开忧伤,有的时候总觉得死亡比活着快乐,有时觉得自己是个忧郁症患者,很多时间活在幻想里,我讨厌现实,认为现实很虚伪,我也讨厌活着,觉得好累.可是我有家庭,有责任,不能伤害到家里的人,我想我就是为他们而活.
也许哪天我意外地离开,对于我来说是最大的幸福,只是舍不得女儿…..
我觉得对别人好，能让我感到快乐
青青河边草:2009-04-23 0:57 AM
快乐是要我们去察觉和体会出来的
生活在别处:2009-05-28 23:37 PM
其实快乐就是美德，并不是追求快乐的手段。我在这一刻感到的存在感，就是我的快乐。无论是所谓好的和所谓坏的，它都是我们要面对的事情。问题在于我们是否能从其中学到一些美好。
如果我们只在乎人生的基本原则，去过简朴生活，那早就满足了。
renee:2009-06-09 10:40 AM
快乐的时候快乐很简单
不快乐 的时候 快乐很难很难
可是 跟自己说尽了道理也没有用
自己总能找到很多反驳自己
矛盾的人
Archer:2009-06-29 15:57 PM
快乐不是简单说说的
更需要的是内心的感悟
coco:2009-07-19 4:25 AM
把快乐放大，把忧伤缩小？ 我不擅長於自欺，所以我很不快樂。
简单:2009-07-25 22:04 PM
我要快乐。
小飞侠:2009-07-28 22:54 PM
我要我快乐，一切任何事情都顺其自然，我会幸福的，一定会
Guest:2009-08-09 10:54 AM
古人有云：知足者乃常乐也！
哈哈，其实很简单的，想多了反而失去了它原本的意义。
Sycee:2009-08-11 1:00 AM
快乐神奇的很。自己想快乐。却老抓不到。顺其自然。
蚂蚁:2009-09-10 23:17 PM
那么容易啊，知足长乐!!!
蚂蚁:2009-09-10 23:18 PM
顺其自然很对啊！
80460505:2009-10-12 12:33 PM
追求和满足必要的需求，则是快乐。过度的索取，则会不快乐！
木头木脑:2009-11-04 13:46 PM
说说容易，做做难！
Guest:2010-02-05 11:26 AM
你的悲伤，就是你那掀了面具的快乐。
123:2010-04-29 8:56 AM
在痛苦中寻找快乐，会更快乐！
空心菜:2010-06-18 11:19 AM
做人简单就会快乐
灵火森林:2010-10-11 16:38 PM
说起来是很容易，但是做起来就不是这样的了。不过我正在努力做一个快乐的人，我要通过自己快乐带动别人快乐。
Guest:2011-10-10 14:37 PM
不去回想以前，不去遥望以后，不去理踩心底的苦楚，就会快乐吧
孤鹰:2011-12-28 13:53 PM
是的 “我们只是追求快乐而已” 简简单单的快乐。就像现在：能在太阳地下晒晒暖暖—-我就很快乐!
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