在财富过剩的年代里，幸福反而成了稀缺品。当工作的时候，渴望自由自在；当无所事事的时候，又企盼充实和忙碌。不幸的人总会抱怨自己什么都没有。背着过去的沉重包袱，那些失去的真是不可或缺的吗？黑白颠倒的作息，一团糟的生活怎么可能带来快乐？追求到的财富不会天然转换成幸福，能转换成幸福的财富才有意义。腾不出空间来快乐，就会腾出空间忧伤；而理想能让你清楚地知道为什么而活。Psytopic提醒您：工作期间换双袜子，也会让人浑身轻松。-psytopic.com
我还拥有什么
不幸的人总会抱怨自己什么都没有。当工作的时候，渴望自由自在；当无所事事的时候，又企盼充实和忙碌。自己认准了什么是最好的，但有时候事与愿违，于是就会为没有拥有的东西而苦恼。幸福的人并不比其他人拥有更多的幸福，只是他明白，他拥有的是他最想要的。
有必要去补救吗
背着过去的沉重包袱有什么用呢？不要去追忆悔恨的事情，不要任由缺憾去占据心扉。试着去补救过错时，可能已经物是人非、时光不再。与其这样，不如反问自己，那些失去的真是不可或缺的吗？既然不是，那就把值得借鉴的经验保存起来，其余的就让它随时间一分一秒地成为过去，慢慢会淡忘。相信时间可以冲淡一切的。
我因为什么而自豪
在人生的旅途中，最糟糕的境遇不是贫困，也不是厄运，而是挫折之后对自己的彻底否定。处在任何环境里，都要坚定自己的能力，不要让怀疑吞噬了灵魂，让生命饮恨在荒废的时光。相信自己有值得别人钦佩的闪光点，也许自己还有一群粉丝。
我应对什么心存感激
当一个人不以感恩之心面对生活，而是以自我得失为中心画地为牢时，就会抱怨：“为什么我对别人这么好，而……”永远忘掉自己对别人的好，永远记住别人对自己的帮助，你就会觉得其实已经很幸运了。还有什么值得抱怨的呢？
应该去拥抱谁？
被爱是一种幸福，但有时也会是不可苛求的奢望。既然无法苛求到被爱，何不试着去爱别人？不一定是妻子、丈夫，不一定是孩子、父母，不一定是熟悉的人。赠人玫瑰，手有余香。习惯爱的人生，生命长河裹挟太多的泥沙也会悄然流逝。
怎样才能找回活力？
人的身体就像一部机器，损耗就要加油。放下手边的工作去做一些积极的事情吧，让自己充满活力。例如，到健身房挥汗如雨，或者联系疏远已久的朋友，彼此说一些鼓励的话。留出时间和孩子玩耍，抑或去郊区踏青、撒野，也是有效的方式。有些办法其实更简单，工作期间换双袜子，也会让人浑身轻松。
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换个角度会是怎样？
一个人很容易成为别人的建议者，是因为彼此看待事物的角度不一样。既然事实已经不能够改变，那就变换方式去来看待它吧。而当自己苦恼不堪又难以自拔时，不妨找别人沟通一番，换个角度看问题，苦恼的事情也许迎刃而解。
生活还要混乱下去吗？
黑白颠倒的作息、无休止的应酬、过量的烟酒，这些无疑都是对身体最残忍的消耗，对情绪最恶劣的破坏。一团糟的生活怎么可能带来快乐？幸福感不光是指吃喝玩乐，追求到的财富不会天然转换成幸福。不如，从今天起，学着普通人把一切收拾得有条不紊，整齐而有序地生活。健康的心态自然会带来幸福。
我的理想是什么？
难道所有的理想都是为了挣钱？自己全部的梦想就是那张毫无意义的财富榜？金钱只是寻求幸福的手段，能转换成幸福的财富才有意义。尝试给自己树立一些目标和理想，越长远的越能给自己带来幸福。理想能让你清楚地知道为什么而活。
为什么不能放松？
如果上述的问题都还不能给自己带来幸福，那么何必强求把所有的不快都压在心头呢？既然情绪是健全心理中不可缺少的一面，腾不出空间来快乐，就会腾出空间忧伤，那把冲动的情绪释放出来也未尝不可。只要不影响到别人的生活，只要不给自己带来后遗症。
Psytopic推荐自《商界时尚》
Happiness scarce commodity: the question for yourself
In an age of excess wealth, happiness has become a scarce commodity. When working, eager to free; when the idle time, but also look forward to full and busy. Unfortunately, people always complain about nothing. Carrying the heavy burden of the past, those who have lost a truly indispensable it? The rest black and white reversal, how messy life can bring happiness? Lofty Seek not the natural wealth into happiness, wealth can be converted into meaningful happiness. No room for the space to happiness, it will make room for sorrow; and ideal let you know why the live. Psytopic remind you: for pairs of socks during the work will make people whole body relaxed. -Psytopic.com
First, what I have
Unfortunately, people always complain about nothing. When working, eager to free; when the idle time, but also look forward to full and busy. His look for what is best, but sometimes it did not, so they do not have anything to upset. Happy people do not have more than others happy, but he understood that he has is his most want.
Second, you need to remedy
Carrying the heavy burden of the past, what is the use? Regret not to recall something, do not allow defects to take heart. Try to remedy the fault may have been the people have changed, anymore. So, it is better to ask ourselves, is really essential for those who have lost it? If not, then the experience is worth learning to save up the rest of the time it minute by minute the past, it will slowly forget. I believe time can dilute all.
Third, I am proud because of what
In the journey of life, the situation is not the worst poverty is not fate, but after the frustration of their complete denial. In any environment, we must strengthen our ability to devour the soul do not let doubt make life lost by the time abandoned. Others believe they are worthy of admiration for the bright spot, perhaps a group of their own fans.
Fourth, what I should be thankful for
When a person does not face life with gratitude, but self-centered Restricting gains and losses, they would complain: "Why am I on the other so well, but ... ..." never forget your good to others, always remember others for their help, you will find them very lucky. There is nothing to complain about?
V. Who should embrace?
Loved is a blessing, but sometimes is not demanding extravagant hopes. Since we can not demanding to be loved, why not try to love someone else? Not necessarily a wife, husband, not necessarily children, parents, not necessarily familiar with. Gifts of roses, hand a lingering fragrance. Used to love and life in river sediment will be quietly coerced too many passes.
6, how to get back energy?
The human body as a machine, loss would fuel. Put aside work to do positive things and let their own dynamic. For example, to the gym to sweat, or contact the long distance friends, say a few words of encouragement to each other. Aside time and children playing, or to suburban outing, run wild, is also an effective way. Some ways to do more than simply working for pairs of socks, will make people whole body relaxed.
7, another point is what?
A person can easily become proponents of others, because each point of looking at things differently. Since the facts have not changed, it would change way to look at it right. Unbearable distress when they become addicted themselves, we might find other people to communicate about it, from another perspective, things may be resolved distress.
8, is even more confusing life forever?
The rest black and white reversed, endless entertainment, excessive alcohol and tobacco, which is undoubtedly the most brutal on the body are consumed, the worst of the emotional damage. Mess how life may bring happiness? Well not only is eat, drink, Lofty Seek not the natural wealth into happiness. As from today, ordinary people learn to pack it all in good order, neat and orderly life. Healthy state of mind it will bring happiness.
9, What is my ideal?
Is the ideal of all is to make money? All their dreams of wealth is meaningless list goes on? Money is only a means to find happiness, wealth can be converted into meaningful happiness. Try to set some goals and ideals of their own, the more long-term to give themselves more happiness. Ideal let you know why the live.
10, why not relax?
If the above issues are not give their own happiness, then He Bijiang are seeking all the unpleasant pressure in his mind then? Since emotions are indispensable to a sound psychological side, no room for the space to happiness, it will make room for sadness, that the emotional impulse might also be released. They do not affect the lives of others, they do not to bring their own complications.
suggest a better translation.
花葬: "那些失去的真是不可或缺的吗？"说的好
LucoZly: 我快要考试了，真的很期待类似的文章
aresde: 终于更新了，我好想好想多多的文章哦！
Dawncold: 没想到这个评论系统做的也这么好～
不过文章更加值得深思。
...
晨曦: 真的很喜欢这里的文章,每次在我感觉迷茫失落的时候,在这里我总...
真的很喜欢这里的文章,每次在我感觉迷茫失落的时候,在这里我总能得到一些安慰并反省自己从而从新振作起来.加油!
终于更新了，我好想好想多多的文章哦！
“那些失去的真是不可或缺的吗？”说的好
我快要考试了，真的很期待类似的文章
没想到这个评论系统做的也这么好～
不过文章更加值得深思。
我也有点沉闷了，来到这里看到新文章，真是很高兴。
希望明天更加快乐……
小鱼:2010-05-13 10:57 AM
这个网址一直保存在我QQ资料里，起初那时候还是喜欢来做测试，但是现在也要慢慢还读读里面的文章，今天很迷茫，读在“在人生的旅途中。。。”我把这个做成空间里的一张图片，一打开就看到这句话，以此来鼓励自己。谢谢这个网站。
冷眼看世界:2010-05-13 22:02 PM
也很喜欢这篇文章，只是有感触后，我却一无所得…
一叶轻舟:2010-05-14 11:48 AM
适当的时间出现一篇适当的文章！解我愁!
静怡小座:2010-05-16 10:13 AM
啊！中国语言真是美！韵味无琼！人生有你足已！
MarkNewman:2010-06-21 14:37 PM
好！
文章太好了，给人以动力！一团糟的生活是不能带来幸福的，认真的态度才能对得起身边爱自己的人，幸福就会如期而至。:2010-06-25 1:03 AM
古亦朴者
甜美娜:2010-07-18 15:22 PM
失去的，得到的，
不知道是不是自己想要的。
现在的一切，只是一味的感觉到累，麻木而已。
不知道该如何是好。
xiao M:2010-07-20 20:03 PM
i love it 很赞 <3
给自己多一点鼓励……:2010-08-11 15:56 PM
saca
一枝梅:2010-08-24 16:07 PM
每一段都是经典的描述。对于社会人来说，醍醐灌顶。
问爱之心:2010-09-18 17:19 PM
看过书很多，文章也多…比这好的，现实的，感人的，深醒的太少了！
随着音乐在生活中跳舞:2010-10-02 23:09 PM
需要字字谨记的文章。
rainsmile:2010-10-02 23:28 PM
I LOVE MY DADDY
牛牛:2011-01-04 13:40 PM
自省的文章
lemon:2011-01-16 11:56 AM
腾不出空间来快乐，就会腾出空间忧伤。这句话，感触很深，只是那些伤感的人，并不是他们不想快乐，只是骨子里的，很难改，也许无法改… …
emily:2011-02-23 19:56 PM
今天是第一次进这个网站，发现挺好的
炭头:2011-03-01 21:23 PM
表示，很受学习。
T:2011-04-06 21:49 PM
喜欢，赞成
芳芳:2011-05-18 16:15 PM
当我烦闷的时候看到了这篇文章，豁然开朗….
hmissh:2011-06-24 16:27 PM
我没有理想，55555555
好。。:2011-07-08 9:21 AM
彩虹糖
吴伟:2011-07-29 10:12 AM
幸福稀缺，稀缺是经济学里面的概念，是指不可以无限取用的资源，这就是和我们的幸福一样，不可能一直保持这样一种状态或者过程，不懂得保养幸福，幸福就会流失。但是回过来一想其实我们并不缺乏幸福，而是缺乏快乐，我们的物质生活满足了，精神生活却匮乏了，真正的原因其实是欲望在作怪，真正需要的并不多，但是我们想要的太多了，以至于我们把自己想象成了一个一直在追梦的人，其实有时安于现状并不是一种妥协而是一直哲学，乐于追求并不是一种胸怀而是一直欺骗。
听雨:2011-10-14 13:34 PM
第一次来这里看到这篇文章，很有感触……喜欢，留下一丝痕迹
bioken:2011-10-17 0:36 AM
很淡的文字、淡然的笔调，喜欢
冷清宝贝:2011-11-13 21:45 PM
生活其实很简单，只是我们把事想的太复杂，
tristan:2011-12-23 21:05 PM
真的有那么简单？
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