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情感短路与心理斜坡

人的感情在受外界刺激的影响下,具有多度性和两极性。
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情感短路与心理斜坡

案例:
  一天,王大姐正抹桌椅,叫老伴帮忙移动一张椅子,老伴却埋头剪报,没有动。王大姐火起来了,把抹布一扔,又把水盆推倒,水淌的满地都是。这时,老伴也火了,顺脚把盆子一脚踢飞。

分析:
  为一些小事而突发其火,乱说话、乱摔东西,这就是“情绪短路”的一种表现。用电短路会损坏电器,甚至酿成火灾;情绪短路,既伤害别人,也伤害自己。主要原因是自控与转移情绪的能力不强。这种能力与智慧水平有关,可说是“情感智商”。

  在交往中,常见到一些人的心情有如春、夏的气候,大起大落,变化无常。比如在公园玩得很开心,可回家后又觉生活单调枯燥而心烦,唉声叹气;与戚友畅聚时热闹欢快,独自一人时又为孤寂而愁眉苦脸;时欢时苦,飘忽不定,着实叫人不可捉摸,不仅使人感到难于相处,也令自己异常难受。这种不正常的表现,是”心理斜坡”在作怪。人的感情在受外界刺激的影响下,具有多度性和两极性。每一种情感具有不同的等级,还有着与之相对立的情感状态,如爱与恨、欢乐与忧愁等。感情的等级越高,“心理斜坡”就超大,也就容易向相反的情绪状态转化。“心理斜坡”不但使人情绪不稳、且会间接、直接地影响健康。

建议:
  要克服“情绪短路”和“心理斜坡”的不良反应,得要重视自己的心理保健。正如古语所说:“心病还须心药医”,首先要自觉地消除思想上的偏差,人生不可能总是高潮,更不可能事事如意,谁也要在平凡日子中生活,少不了要碰到麻烦事。关键是懂得放松己,以平常心面对生活。只有这样,才能在不顺心时不致陷人烦恼的泥坑而不能自拔。只有善于保持良好的心理状态,才能为自己营造出良好的生理状态,从而赢得“健康人生”。

  其次,应该勇对新生活,主动体验生活中的不同乐趣(尤其在今天改革开放的日子里)—既能在激荡人心的活动中体验激情的热烈奔放,又能在平淡如水的日常生活中享受悠然自得的生活情趣。既能在群体活动中感受快乐,又能在独自生活时创造充实。只有这样,才能在碰到不顺心的事或发生较大转换时,避免产生心理上的反差而诱发情绪短路成心理斜坡。

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  其三,适当地“糊涂”是医治情绪病的良方。对入对事,只要不是原则问题,就大可“糊涂”待之。“糊涂”者,指不必事事计较谁是谁非;不去时时考虑个人得失;不去每每分析谁占了我便宜;不去常常思量自己有没有吃亏。老年人由于有“长者尊严关”、“老年面子关”和不自觉而产生的“老子总是正确关”等等, “海纳百川”的气量,就更显得难能可贵了。但是,必须具有大气量,才可能轻松地生活。宽容,该是老年人心理基础最重要的一条。

  其四,要加强理智对情绪的调控作用。古语云“物极必反”。这就提醒我们,“乐极”与“气极”、“怒极”都不好,应该时刻注意保持适度的冷静和清醒,在欢乐、顺心时,主动降温,避免激情过太;遇苦闷或情绪转入低谷时,要换个积极的想法;事物都有多重性,受许多因素制约,要从有利及好的一面去想,自能理脱情绪困境。也可用“以反制反”的办法来调整自己。如静极就外出活动一下;闹极就避开冷一冷;闷极就找人说一说,……只要不断学习,坚持用正确的人生观、世界观指导自己的思想感情和行动,就能做到以理智控制情绪保康宁。古人都知道“修德”是贯穿终生的主课,难道我们活在现代的人还不明白吗?

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Case:
One day, Wang Huijun is clearing the tables and chairs, called his wife to help mobile a chair, his wife has preoccupied press cuttings, not moving. Wang Huijun fire up, the cloth一扔, a strip of water basin overturned, water Dayantang Montreal are. At this time, his wife also fire, the pot-foot kicked踢飞.

Analysis:
For some trivial matter and its sudden fire, talking nonsense, indiscriminate摔东西, this is the "emotional short circuit" of a performance. Electricity will be damaged electrical short circuit, or even lead to fires; emotional short-circuit not only hurt others, but also of self-inflicted injury. Main reason for the transfer is controlled and emotional capacity is not strong. This capability and the level of wisdom, can be described as "emotional IQ."

In exchanges, the common feeling that some people like spring, summer climate ups and downs volatility. For example, very happy playing in the park, and then go home life单调枯燥and feel upset, heave deep sighs; with excitement when Qiyou Cheong Poly cheerful, when one person alone for the lonely and愁眉苦脸; when Huan, bitter, erratic, indeed called people不可捉摸, people find it difficult not only coexist, but also make them extremely uncomfortable. This abnormal performance is "psychological slope" problems. The feelings of people in the affected by the external stimulus, and with multiple degrees of polarization. Each has a different emotional level, the legislation also has a relative with the emotional state, such as love and hate, joy and sad, and so on. The higher the grade the feelings of the "psychological slope" on the large, will be easier to transform the opposite emotional state. "Psychological slope" not only people emotionally unstable, and will indirectly and directly affect health.

Recommendations:
To overcome "emotional short-circuit" and "psychological slope" of adverse reactions, need to attach importance to their mental health. As the old saying goes: "heart disease but also heart medicine doctor", we must first consciously eliminate ideological deviation, it is impossible always upsurge in life, let alone the best, who also live in extraordinary times, unavoidable to run into trouble things. The key is know how to relax himself and equanimity to face life. Only by doing this can not be done on whether the trouble in the mud of depression were unable to extricate themselves. The only good at maintaining good mental state, can create for himself a good physiological state, thereby winning the "Healthy Life."

Secondly, the new life-yong should take the initiative in different life experience fun (especially in today's reform and opening day) - both in stirring people's hearts passionate experience in the activities of the warm and flowing, but also in the daily life of plain water to enjoy Carefreeness and Contentment delight of life. Activities in both groups feel happy, but also in the creation of their own lives enriched. Only in this way can not encountered in the matter or whether the larger conversion occurred when the avoidance of psychological contrast evoked emotional and psychological short-circuit into the slope.
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Third, properly "confused" is the best way to heal emotional problems. On the matter of income, as long as not a matter of principle, it can be "confused" this year. "Confused", that not everything regardless of who is right or wrong; do not always consider their personal gains or losses; Analysis who often do not account for my cheap do not often wonder they have no disadvantage. Elderly As the "elderly dignity customs," "elderly face Guan" and unconsciously, and the "I always correct customs," and so on, "Heiner-inclusive" magnanimity, the more valuable it. However, we must have the atmosphere of it will be easy life. Tolerance, the psychological foundation for the elderly is the most important one.

Fourth, we must strengthen the rational regulation of the emotions. The old saying goes - "extremes meet." This reminds us, "Le Pole" and "气极", "Nuji" not good, we should always pay attention to maintaining an appropriate degree of calm and sober, in great joy, when on whether the initiative cool and avoid too had passion; event of boredom or emotional into low ebb, it is necessary to change the thinking positive; there is a multiplicity of restrained by many factors, we must think good and the positive side, since from emotional difficulties can be justified. Also available "to counter the anti-" approach to adjust its own. If static is about to go out activities;闹very cold to avoid a cold; nausea most people would have say ... as long as continuous learning, persist in using the correct outlook on life, world outlook, feeling, and to guide their actions, we will be able to do to control emotions in a rational-Corning. The ancients all know that "virtue and moral integrity" is the main course through life, should we live in a modern person does not understand?

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